u/KaleidoscopeNeat3113

This all happened in 2020, I was around 8-9 in the 3rd grade during COVID while my cousin was either in 5th grade or middle school.
His mom which is my dad sister which makes her my Tia would take care of me during December time as both my parents were busy and would have work
I remember one time my Tia left to run some errands and left my cousin in charge of me and his little sister and my little cousin
we were all planning on watching a movie but then he asks me to go somewhere with him and help him with something and I didn't think anything of it until he decided to try and give me a wedgie and get on top of me while I was on my stomach. I told him to stop and he wouldn't and he tried offering me money to let him but I kept saying no and thank goodness my dad got there in time to pick me up
this went on for a little while where my cousin would touch me inappropriately in my private areas and make me so uncomfortable until one day I finally decided to tell my parents
I remember telling my mom that morning how I didn't want to go to my Tia's house and how I wanted to stay home and she asked me why but I didn't tell her and I teared up which eventually made me tell her and I remember her crying to my father about it and having to start going with my father to his work
my cousin claimed he was sorry but I know he wasn't, he was old enough to understand what he was doing to me as he did it many times and his mother was okay with the fact her son traumatized me
the worst part was my cousin lived with my grandparents so whenever I went over I automatically felt uncomfortable because it's like I'm in the same house as the guy who touched me inappropriately
The worst part is not even a year after that when I went into 4th grade my grandfather started doing the same stuff to me, touching my private area inappropriately and groping me, it was disgusting and I'm sure it started when I was very young because I remember him babysitting me and j*rking off while touching me inappropriately but at the time I didn't think anything of it because I was just a little girl around like 4-5
I've never told my parents about my grandfather doing this stuff to me as that's my fathers dad and my father already didn't talk to his sister due to what her son did to me.
I don't talk to my grandfather now, neither do I talk to my cousin, but I'm not sure if this counts as sexual assault.