Roommate says my BF is sleeping over too much. I’m thinking they’re starting to over reach.
My BF just came back from LDR. First week back he did sleep over 3 days in a row. I hadn’t seen him for 5 months. I understand 3 nights back to back is a bit much and apologized and said it will not be a regular thing.
The next week he stayed over once, then the next day was over for 4 hours and left at midnight. He then slept over again 4 days later.
Before we discuss more, I just want to get others insight. Through text and in person, last night it seemed like my roommate was displeased with my BF sleeping over a second night during the week and texted me that him coming over for those 4 hours counted as sleeping over to them.
The general consensus I saw online was that sleep overs are fine if they are within a weekend amount of days. I would assume that would be about 2-3 days anyways so I should be fine??
Not only that we never go into shared spaces. Just my room. Never the living room, or kitchen. I even have my own bathroom and fridge. He only uses the front door, but hell. If this is truly a problem, I can even start bringing him in through my sliding door so he doesn’t disrupt anyone in the home.