Is my planner duping me?
Hi all, so I splurged and got a planner because I was having chest tightness and crying everyday when looking for venues. But now I feel like every time she sends us vendors they’re all over budget. And she keeps saying “well what you want costs this much”. My wonderful fiance has offered to be a “groomzilla” by asking to at least be shown in budget options. I don’t mind spending more if it’s really necessary but I’m not feeling the necessity. I feel like this has easily doubled the cost of our wedding and I just see the number climbing. For dare I say a fairly normal wedding. Someone please tell me if I need to just trust my planner or if I need to have a conversation and how to do that. Thank you all!
Edit: hi everyone. I want to thank you for all your feedback. I think the consensus is, have a chat with my planner but likely is just things are expensive. I’m going to stop responding but will leave this post up for an hour or so and then take it down. Thank you again.