u/KatieKaBoom0131

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Home too safe for protective services

Just wondering if it's worth moving forward with attempts for protective services. We had our in home visit today. I was told that since we have extra locks on the doors and windows that my son (7 years old level 3, mostly non verbal, eloper) hasn't figured out YET, that we wouldnt qualify for protective services. He has figured out the front door lock so the social worker said we could try to apply because of that but if we found a lock he couldn't figure out then they'd deny it.

She was here less than 5 minutes, most of it was over the phone, (My son's are just getting over being sick so she was trying to protect herself not faulting her for being cautious or anything) and she said she didn't see any actions from him that would lead to needing PS. He was hiding under the couch cushions the whole time. That's not his normal behavior on the daily.

What do I do? He needs constant within arms reach supervision. Has no sense of danger and loves dangerous behaviors. But hasn't gotten injured bad enough to need to go to the ER or doctor. Should I not have additional locks and alarms? He recently eloped through an emergency exit at an indoor playground and got a mile and a half from the place we were at before cops found him. He needs a 1 on 1 aid at school at all times because they know he is a danger to himself. I'm at a loss. Does he really not qualify? Should I not keep trying?

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u/KatieKaBoom0131 — 1 day ago

Not sure how I could actually be a 42K. My girls feel and look like socks full of rocks. Advise please.

So my fiance said he thought I was a C cup. I'm a big girl and my chest has always been a topic of conversation to say the least. I haven't been a C cup since I was 12 so it threw me. But I am 41 now and after 2 kids and weight fluctuations my breasts are definitely not as they were. I took my measurements according to the calculators instructions and got 42 K US. (Measurements below)

In my brain a K cup would be big and full. And I don't feel like that's what I look like anymore. I'm more long, slender and heavy up top. They're great don't get me wrong but I can't wrap my head around being a K. Like if I put on an actual K cup my boobs would look like puddles. I feel like I did something wrong. Or maybe I need a different bra type?

I did recently buy a new bra after my partner said I was a C. I got it in a 46C and it looked great. Not a proper fit of course, the girls were pushed up and together and bulging out. But I didn't hate it. Am I just used to wearing the wrong bras or did I mess up?

Bra Size Calculator

Loose Underbust: 44.5

Snug Underbust: 43

Tight Underbust: 42

Standing Bust: 53

Leaning Bust: 56

Lying Bust: 53.5

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u/KatieKaBoom0131 — 1 month ago