u/KeshyneConchas

I need to replace my mattress and I’m completely stuck on firmness. I’ve always assumed being heavier meant I needed the firmest mattress possible, but the last one was so hard that my back and hips were miserable by morning.

I’m around the 400 lb range and mostly sleep on my side. I need enough support that I’m not sinking into the middle, but I also need some give around my hips and shoulders.

If you’re around my size, what has held up well for you? I’m trying to find the best mattress for back pain without spending another few thousand dollars and realizing the firmness is wrong.

My refrigerator is barely staying cold, the dishwasher leaves food stuck on half the plates, and the washing machine sounds like it is preparing for takeoff every spin cycle. I have been avoiding replacing them because throwing away large appliances feels incredibly wasteful, but Memorial Day appliance deals 2026 finally got me looking.

Now I am stuck trying to figure out which stores actually care about longevity, repairs, energy efficiency, and recycling old units instead of just pushing upgrades every few years.

I really need recommendations from people who recently bought a refrigerator, dishwasher, or washer that actually held up long term. Trying to avoid making another expensive mistake.