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Even when they are very basic, women are shamed for wanting the bare minimum, i am talking from experience because one time i posted that i wanted a man who had a stable job and religiously moderate but at the same time into movies and games and people commented all sorts of things telling me that netkhayel, and i asked for too much, a man like that doesn’t exist… some men even cursed me for asking and told me marriage isn’t built on movies and games but i only said that as a bonus you know? I believe compatibility is important.
What about you what do you think?

I personally rarely go on Facebook but whenever i log in and see the posts on women only facebook posts i get so confused.
I have seen posts from 20 to 24 year old girls saying that they keep crying and begging for a husband because all their friends are getting engaged and not them, how is this a reason for you to cry and plead? I don’t think people take marriage seriously anymore, it’s a life long commitment and not just a fancy title to flaunt, it’s a responsibility and a sacred one too.
Yes marriage is a great thing but can we mature up before?
I personally am 27 and i have just started looking for marriage after i have spent the previous years working on becoming the best version of myself to become a good partner and mother.
What do y’all think

I accidentally found a list of all these qualities and things i wanted in my future husband while cleaning that i wrote when i was younger and it made me realize that even though i grew up and matured up, i still want the same qualities in my partner.
I unfortunately didn’t find this man, and I don’t know if i should keep hoping or waiting ?
It’s good to know i have had the same principles since ever!