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My EXTREMELY wealthy husband owns the cemetery plot where our 23 yr old daughter is now buried. He refuses to sign the waiver for my Austin kids and I to place a headstone and also refuses to put a headstone there himself.it seems like it’s his one last stitch effort to cause us immense pain and exacerbate our grief any further and I am complete and total loss of what else to do to get my child’s grave honored. Short of hiring an attorney and having her exhumed and cremated which I probably cannot afford I do not know what to do…any suggestions would be greatly appreciated for those who have been thru something similar . TYIA!!!!!!

I wasn’t there when it happened, there is no way I could have prevented it. Yet, 6 months in, everything I try to do to ease my depression and increase the endorphins to my brain I feel like it’s a betrayal to my adult child who died. Why should I go on this hike when she can’t? Why should I go to the gym when she can’t? Why should I do anything more than go to work to keep a roof over our heads and then get back in bed to cry when she can’t??? I have a BH appt I’ve been waiting for in 2 weeks (been on waiting list for 4 months). So down. So so so down.