I need to rant - am I in the wrong for being a bit annoyed here?
Hi parents, need advice.
Going round bfs for a sleepover, ask my mum about it she is fine as long as transport is all good, then ask about staying two nights. This is when our texts coming more passive aggressive on her end, mind you she is seeing it as me and my bf being attached or something (for context, me and bf both doing work experience, havent seen each other) - but I just eant to see him, yes I miss him, but she was like "not being funny youve not even been apart a week", further emphasising my point its like she thinks im attached to him, which annoys me cause im not. She even at the end of this text says "but whatever." I dont know if she was trying to do something there or whatever but I saw it as silly and passive aggressive for no reason. She then also told me not to be pissy if they (rest of my household) do somethinf and I miss out, because she doesn't want my brothers missing out on fun cause im not here on the weekend/bank Holiday. I have made the choice ti go to my bfs, if I was to become pissy that would be stupid. It feels as if she views me as, not only attached to him, but dumb or something - which i don't think she does.
Just sometimes it feels like she gets reallt annoyed about my relationship when I just want to spend time with him, which we do a lot of usually but not to a concerning amount, I do spend a lot of time at home too as im worried on jot being there on my free time with my little brothers - but shes never raised an actual discussion on how much time I spend with him but shes acting, in my head, as if two nights is ludicrous just because I wont be home for 2 nights. I hope someone understand what im on about in this post, I sort of rambled. I can answer any questions and cease confusion if thst is helpful as j understand my rambling may be a bit confusing.