u/Key_Boysenberry3044

I think i need to start getting creative with mine as im not even halfway through filling it for bf (if anyone has seen my posts, I am currently making one for my br who's birthday is in 8 days). I have currently gotten down that I could colour in plain paper or make patterns on plain paper to act as if its already patterned.

his birthday is in 8 days.

(boyfriend)

I am nowhere near halfway through filling this scrapbook, especially since I dont have alot.

At what point is it sane enough for some pages to be clued together? page filler help please !!

Anyways, heres a page ive done that im proud of. Ive got more obviously, but hand drawn spiderman soo.. ive also got a planets one but I have not taken a picture.

https://preview.redd.it/m3nsqodpowuh1.jpg?width=3000&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=fb9338059605f8009d5ff85ba0e30a700fcfedaa

Boyfriend is currently saying how he gets less than the bare minimum from me, am I crazy to ask why hes still with me then if its apparently so bad?

Me and my boyfriend, we're great. Its usually really good, but when we argue.. its like, oh my god im so done. Not in the normal relationship way, like to the point ive started stepping on egg shells now.

Yes im a teenager, keep that in mind but please don't water down anything I say just because of my age. Whenever we argue or bicker or something, he'll brinf up something he doesnt like what I do or something he disagrees with that ive done etc - which is fine. But sometimes it just feels harsh. And, if I was to do the same thing i feel like id get a load of shit back for it but ive never really tried to say anything. He says i need to improve on communication, among other things and he tells me things ive done etc.

so for context, we've been dating wround a year and a half. He's my world, I love him so much and genuinely cannot imagine my day without him. Im not afraid to admit we've had a couple rough ups snd downs but we're good, we both know we need to improve in some ways and we're working on it together.

Now, earlier i said I didnt know what to do due to it being late, to which he replied that I should sleep. I text back agreeing and say goodnight, he doesnt say goodnight I think its like 'uh huh' or something, mind you im confused now. I say 'iloveyouu' and I think i get an mhm back, maybe its because im due on soon.. but I went "why wont you say it back". Just this makes my mind go wild, im thinking every worse situation. Its given me a headache now in present time. he then responds with "it feels weird to say it". Now im freaking out with mt headache thats worsening, and I hope he doesnt just act like it never happened in the morning but im freaking. Yes, I am a sensitive person too (I know, pick a struggle), but I feel like this is valid. Any reason why he may be doing this? it makes me feel crazy to worry.

after this message I went "oh okay", what are you really meant to say? He then proceeded to ask me to leave him alone. So in conclusion, confused and spent at least 5 minutes having a small cry becasue I dont know if ive done somethinf wrong or if hes not feeling right. It might just be his mood thats sorta fluctuating right now due to suffering from insomnia currently, and we also havent seen each other in 2 weeks, maybe, and a little bit. I feel helpless.

So, i was working (I so somethinf part time to help out a grandparent in their tea room), and im sat down having a break. Said guy mentioned sits down snd he just starts talking. to me, we know people that had moved from my school to his etc. Both laughing an just gettinf on. Basically, this tea room is at a tank museum in which a big army festival thing is going on - tanks, guns, cafets around etc. we go walking stound together while im on a break and dont have any jobs to do, we get alonf and im thinkinf its all friendly. even as someone who is horrible with social cues etc, I thoight I could sense something but brushed it off. We were chatting the whole of my shift and he came back into the tea toom and talked to me and my grandparent while we prepared for the next day snd cleaned up. We joke around, like getting along really well. Similar music, just get on and flow.

Then, he mentions this hangar dance that was happening later on in the evening (which is had been planning to go to. Just to hang out nor actually dance as I am NOT a swing dancer and it was 1940s themed). i comgince my grandparent eyc to let me go. When I get there, me and him.jusy go off together walking. Nothing strange I can pinky promise that, listen to music while talking about anything. We sit on a tank together before he goes and we just click. To preface this, earlier in the day he asked if I had a boyfriend, and yes I immediately snd I mean IMMEDIATELY replied I did. we just got on, it wsd lovely to have someone my age to talk to as well. We added each other on snap. we've been talking a bunch since saturday, when I met him and I asked him why he just spontaneously started talking to me in the tea room. He responded that he just didnt have anythign to do, but because he thoight I was pretty. I took the compliment instead of making things awkward, of course. But im.hopeufl.to stay friends with him, but now knowing he hoped to hsve something or atleast attempt soemthing in the future, I dunno whst to do.

Also earlier, I sorta just started opening up without even thinking about it to him. I talked to him.how my relationship is a bit. bumpy aat times and I feel like I really shouldn't of done it. Ive not even had a chance to bring up this said boy to bg due to us not really texting as ive been so busy with work, but I dont know what to do

So, i was working (I so somethinf part time to help out a grandparent in their tea room), and im sat down having a break. Said guy mentioned sits down snd he just starts talking. to me, we know people that had moved from my school to his etc. Both laughing an just gettinf on. Basically, this tea room is at a tank museum in which a big army festival thing is going on - tanks, guns, cafets around etc. we go walking stound together while im on a break and dont have any jobs to do, we get alonf and im thinkinf its all friendly. even as someone who is horrible with social cues etc, I thoight I could sense something but brushed it off. We were chatting the whole of my shift and he came back into the tea toom and talked to me and my grandparent while we prepared for the next day snd cleaned up. We joke around, like getting along really well. Similar music, just get on and flow.

Then, he mentions this hangar dance that was happening later on in the evening (which is had been planning to go to. Just to hang out nor actually dance as I am NOT a swing dancer and it was 1940s themed). i comgince my grandparent eyc to let me go. When I get there, me and him.jusy go off together walking. Nothing strange I can pinky promise that, listen to music while talking about anything. We sit on a tank together before he goes and we just click. To preface this, earlier in the day he asked if I had a boyfriend, and yes I immediately snd I mean IMMEDIATELY replied I did. we just got on, it wsd lovely to have someone my age to talk to as well. We added each other on snap. we've been talking a bunch since saturday, when I met him and I asked him why he just spontaneously started talking to me in the tea room. He responded that he just didnt have anythign to do, but because he thoight I was pretty. I took the compliment instead of making things awkward, of course. But im.hopeufl.to stay friends with him, but now knowing he hoped to hsve something or atleast attempt soemthing in the future, I dunno whst to do.

Also earlier, I sorta just started opening up without even thinking about it to him. I talked to him.how my relationship is a bit. bumpy aat times and I feel like I really shouldn't of done it. Ive not even had a chance to bring up this said boy to bg due to us not really texting as ive been so busy with work, but I dont know what to do.

Im struggling to find anything good or what I like. I keep getting strange like f*tish things etc., or things kike the omegaverse. Mind tou, not a clue how it works or what it really is. I just want a human character to talk to, or atleast a bot/creator that does like angst/feiends to lovers or any of those tropes. Or even someone who does characters from games etc. Anyways, even when I filter by a trope, I never actually seem to get anything with that in. First time user as of last night, need help pleasee.. any recommendations will be taken!

this may be a stipid thing i find infuriating, but i hate and I mean HATE when I find a sub for something I need or maybe one of my interest, I try to make a post or talk about something, ask questions etc., then i get the thing sayinf my post has been removed due to me not having enough karma. Genuinelt infuriates me, im also not on reddit constantly enoigh to understand how karma works, soo...

But please tell me im not alone in this. Its especially annoying and infuriating when its like theres one specific sub reddit that matches what you wanna talk about.. and then you dont have enough karma.

Im just going to put the flair as that content warning as this post is food related.

Im not sure if this "counts" as an eating disorder.

Im not sure what going on with my eating. I seem to think constantly at the moment I look bigger than I am, yet at the same time I know its normal to have like a little bit of belly. I barely have a stomach that sticks out, I do - but at the same time I feel like im so much bigger than I am.

I eat so much shit and im not afraid to admit it, I often get told 'I dont know where you put it' and things along those lines. I regularly will let myself have like a Cadbury bar, but like one of those average sized ones, not the little bars but you know what I mean. I do always tell myself 'a little bit', then its gone by the end of the day and I havent stopped myself. I try to restrict my eating a little, just because I constantly feel like im eating so much. My eating and my body is getting in the way of things I do, like me and my boyfriend messing around and I feel a constant need to maybe suck my stomach in if I feel like he's looking, even if he isnt, or pull my shirt down. I wish i could control my eating better. Sometimes I have moment where ill just eat a load of something or a couple thinfs in the span of like 2 minutes, I keep it down however because I cant do anytbing related to being sick, I also wouldn't know how to hide the fact ive been sick or anything. I occasionally will spit my dinner or ahy meal ive just had out somewhere as if it will make a difference. Its stupid I know.

I dont know who to talk to ahout it, what if im not taken seriously?

Me and my friends, as well as my partner will constantly make fat jokes at each other - even when knowing they obviously aren't. Its stupid, but every now and then (due to the fact I can get stupidly anxious about things) I wonder if they mean it, or my partner means it. I can be a very sensitive person at times unfortunately, which doesnt help my case. I would talk to my partner or my best friend, but I constantly want to try to then feel like they won't fet it and there's no point. Ive been struggling with my whole eating thing for ages, whether its in the bsck of my mind or not. its always there. Like I said, im not sure whether this is a disordered eating situation, I feel like I havent explained some of my thoughts as well as I could've as I usuallt have a lot racing through that I want to put down when I make a reddit post. So, I just put the flair down as disordered eating incase any of this is triggering for any individuals.

Im just going to put the flair as that content warning as this post is food related.

Im not sure if this "counts" as an eating disorder.

Im not sure what going on with my eating. I seem to think constantly at the moment I look bigger than I am, yet at the same time I know its normal to have like a little bit of belly. I barely have a stomach that sticks out, I do - but at the same time I feel like im so much bigger than I am.

I eat so much shit and im not afraid to admit it, I often get told 'I dont know where you put it' and things along those lines. I regularly will let myself have like a Cadbury bar, but like one of those average sized ones, not the little bars but you know what I mean. I do always tell myself 'a little bit', then its gone by the end of the day and I havent stopped myself. I try to restrict my eating a little, just because I constantly feel like im eating so much. My eating and my body is getting in the way of things I do, like me and my boyfriend messing around and I feel a constant need to maybe suck my stomach in if I feel like he's looking, even if he isnt, or pull my shirt down. I wish i could control my eating better. Sometimes I have moment where ill just eat a load of something or a couple thinfs in the span of like 2 minutes, I keep it down however because I cant do anytbing related to being sick, I also wouldn't know how to hide the fact ive been sick or anything. I occasionally will spit my dinner or ahy meal ive just had out somewhere as if it will make a difference. Its stupid I know.

I dont know who to talk to ahout it, what if im not taken seriously?

Me and my friends, as well as my partner will constantly make fat jokes at each other - even when knowing they obviously aren't. Its stupid, but every now and then (due to the fact I can get stupidly anxious about things) I wonder if they mean it, or my partner means it. I can be a very sensitive person at times unfortunately, which doesnt help my case. I would talk to my partner or my best friend, but I constantly want to try to then feel like they won't fet it and there's no point. Ive been struggling with my whole eating thing for ages, whether its in the bsck of my mind or not. its always there. Like I said, im not sure whether this is a disordered eating situation, I feel like I havent explained some of my thoughts as well as I could've as I usuallt have a lot racing through that I want to put down when I make a reddit post. So, I just put the flair down as disordered eating incase any of this is triggering for any individuals.

(Better Than The Movies by Lynn Painter)

Other than the songs that we already know are on the 'Liz and Wes Playlist', what songs do YOU think would go well or atleast suit their situation well enough to make sense with the playlist?

Personally, I think theres so many songs from Taylor Swift other than ones mentioned in the playlist, that woukd go so well with Liz and Wes. Maybe potentially 'The Way I Loved You'? And another song I constantly thought about while reading bttm was Thinking of You by Katy Perry. Likely doesnt help the songs gaining popularity on tiktok again, but it feels so them at the same time. Thoughts on other songs you think wouldve suited them?

Ive mostly rebuilt a lot of willow creek, onlt leaving like the big plots near what was the goths house. However, ive built a little in oasis springs but the idea of newcrest is just too much for me, ive built like 4 plots maybe, if you count the one build I brought over from another save. Ive went round to a couple builds and "refreshed" some but what will that actually do for my world if im onlt foing to be playing in base game worlds and potentially others for storyline or distant family purposes? I feel stuck on whether yo start creating the family i have in my head or continue trying to build, I just dont know what to do. Do I just not care about townies around the world and if i come across their house I jusy rebuild it if their sim is important to the story??

Also the family i have in my head is like it branches off as some have girlfriends or a partner of sorts, do I out their lore into the game and give them parents or just have it written down to remember. I dont know if this is sims hurn out slightly as this is my second version of a forever save (i was getting bored in my other one, but im not sure why). I just cant seem to stick to one thing currently in ts4. Help is welcome or any advice.

guys honestly one of my favourite 'cheapskate' meals i know is one of my favourite things to eat. Pasta with tomato soup. Sounds a bit odd, but is delicious. Add some cheese on and in it, and oh my god if you can add some bacon and maybe peas or something?

I had the meal a bit as a kid and it stuck with me so I still regularly make it just eith cheese. Like you could go into your nearby corner shop and get the stuff for cheap, or like a tesco eyc. (sorry jf theres a lot of Americans on here etc). And it shouldn't cost too much, and if you have family and you might be struggling a bit, honestly such an easy meal - dont go against it till you try it.

guys honestly one of my favourite 'cheapskate' meals i know is one of my favourite things to eat. Pasta with tomato soup. Sounds a bit odd, but is delicious. Add some cheese on and in it, and oh my god if you can add some bacon and maybe peas or something?

I had the meal a bit as a kid and it stuck with me so I still regularly make it just eith cheese. Like you could go into your nearby corner shop and get the stuff for cheap, or like a tesco eyc. (sorry jf theres a lot of Americans on here etc). And it shouldn't cost too much, and if you have family and you might be struggling a bit, honestly such an easy meal - dont go against it till you try it.

So I take spanish, history, triple science and health and social. For this rant/issue im having right now we're focusing on health and social.

Ive tried extremely hard in health and social care, I think its due to the fact when I genuinely love a subject and what it includes doing or what content is in it - i try harder. So, we do component 1 and we get some time before the deadline to go back and finish any tasks we didnt do. My task 1 was csap and rushed since it was from when we were just starting out. So, I redid rhe whole thing. Went from like 7 pages to 28. I put effort in. All my tasks for component 1 totalled to 60/60. Mind you, everyone is proud of me including myself.

Then a couple weeks ago Im pulled out to talk to our like lady who's like the one who deals with and sorts exams etc. Im being put under investigation for 'malpractice', well rhats what the term is. Search up online what it actually is if you're bothered because I can't remember. Basically, Pearson are suspicious how ive done 28 pages in the space of time i had, and that I got full marks and that its like 'rare' to and this that and the other. I have to write a literal statement for this investigation!!

The worst bit is the terminology used in the thing I was given. 'investigation', 'guilty'. Just basically words that were like you would use in a court or jury or something.

My teacher for health and social has had to submit a statement too about me, and apparently my teachers im other subjects have had to submit works of mine to show that this is just my standard of work and how I consistsnly work, and that I havent cheated or used AI to type it all out for me etc etc.

Im obviously stressed iut after this whole situation, I go home the Wednesday this happened and on the way home I immediately text my mum. She doesnt understand what going on and rings he school, I get home and shes on the phone talked to said same lady who runs everything to do with exams, gcses etc. My mum is fuming. So am I, im confused, upset eyc. I still am now, and its been like 2 weeks or so.

They think they have a strong case for me however, but we can only be hopeful. I cant explain how enraging it feels to be in this situation.

Wanna know the worst part?

I come home on Wednesday fine, wake up Thursday and im thinking oh its a sore throat and take some paracetamol. Ive left by period 2 cause it hurts to swallow, talk etc.

I dont go in the Friday either. Go to the pharmacist and my tonsils have swollen. The whole situation has given me stress-induced tonsillitis/swollen tonsils atleast. My body basically wrnt into fight or flight and like had that happen to me. Im fine now but it was awful.

My mum has rang in and asked about getting the final decision pushed, but hasn't heard anything and hasn't heard anything about talking to the head teacher because we're having to wait a couple weekd to actually hear anything. The stress is eating me every day. Basically, its either im found 'not guilty' and nothing happens, I get a chance to rewrite, or they take away all my marks (basically found guilty). I need to know if anyone else knows anyone or is someone who has had domething like this happen to them. This whole thing is crushing. It's given me swollen tonsils from it, like how ridiculous is that.

I saw someone put a post up about asking 'what advice would you have given to your year 9 self' and it was a whole lot of negatives, which is unsurprising. But, I wanted yo ask and see what things people have done throughout when they did their GCSES that they enjoyed or what theyre doing or what they chose that theyre enjoying now? This could be maybe being happy with the options you chose and having no regrets, or even just being happy about how its all going etc.

We know that Jefferson gets elected as mayor. but oh my god, please someone tell me if we ever get a storyline or mission related to them again, i loved them so much. Idk why but their storyline was so fun and interesting to me, yet also like horrifying. Imagine noticing yourself change, as well as the man you love, and youre unable to do anything about it?

Their storyline id such an insane one and I wish people talked about it more since its genuinely such an in depth and scary thing to think about happening.