in need of self-domination advice
hello. i’m an eighteen year old girl who is very curious about bdsm and i’d like to explore it more but i am not currently in any arrangements. i briefly had a daddy but we are no longer in contact and i want to explore my preferences further but it’s difficult by myself to do. so i would greatly appreciate if you have any suggestions that could help me! here are a few things that my former partner and i have done/were in routine. i’m trying to continue to do these routines but it’s hard to stay motivated without him.
- he would tell me what panties and clothes to wear
- we had rules that i would have to spank myself if i broke
- he would make me go to the gym and not eat dessert unless it was the weekend or he deemed me to deserve it.
i know that it doesn’t seem like a lot, but keep in mind that this was my first relationship with a dynamic like this and i wanted to take it slow. 🥹