Obsessed with womens pants styles but can't find a good source for gender-bending fashion advice or sharing best ideas

Lately I've been really stuck on this idea of finding the right womens pants and jeans. I got a few good pairs of bootcut jeans that fit me well enough to wear to work, and just want to try more.

I need ideas for diffent styles and good outfits to match. I love tasteful gender bending, just being a bit more outwardly feminine, but finding ways to mix this with mens clothing. There seems to be a lot of websites talking philosophically about if it's ok for men to wear womens clothes, but not many that show actual examples of what styles to wear with what.

Just examples I've thought about:

  • Best things to match with flared jeans
  • most flattering legging styles
  • how to best wear hip hugging pants or look better with curves
  • wearing unique patterns or colors
  • Shoes styles and tops that compliment everything

Thus far it seems I mostly have only discovered outfits through trial and error, I'm just surprised it's so hard to find more sources of people showing off experiments or sharing best clothing brands.

Am I looking in the wrong place?

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u/KimBeeBloom — 9 days ago
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Friction album mystery - AI generated? Can't find any explanation.

I'm a fan of the DnB artist Friction, and recently have seen around 4 back-to-back albums be released on Tidal under the name Friction. Tidal can sometimes conflate unrelated artists, but these are all instrumental-only DnB albums from what I can tell. Definitely a departure in sound from Frictions previous work, but I listened to a couple and felt pretty impressed by them.

I looked them up and can't find any other mention online of them on official Friction pages, discogs, wikipedia... anywhere. Hard to believe but now I'm guessing they are actually AI albums not made by Friction but pretending to be him. Big giveaway is that the logo on each album is different and the art itself looks very AI generated.

So if these are really AI albums masquerading as Friction, how come he hasn't come out publicly against them, or tried to get them removed? I've heard horror stories about Spotify enabling AI copycats, so maybe this is more common there, but as of yet haven't seen anything blatant like this on Tidal.

Anyone know anything about these mystery albums? Amazed how real and original they actually sound, it's frightening.

Album covers from Tidal's Friction profile

u/KimBeeBloom — 24 days ago

Hoping this helps someone deal with Tahoe problems if they're lost for solutions.

I'm usually quick to install OS updates, but Tahoe immediately caused major issues that I've taken 1-2 months to finally identify and solve. This includes: keychain issues, user permissions, and worst of all - major disturbances to overall system performance. Each issue became apparent quickly after updating.

My technical specs are a MacBook Pro 13" (2019) with an Intel processor and 32gb of RAM, I'm not sure if that's important or if this exists on Apple chips as well.

The biggest fix overall has been to system performance, which it seems was a combination of resetting my extended display settings for a new widescreen monitor, and a number of new default OS settings added by Tahoe as part of "glass" redesign. This amazing guide The Cleanest macOS Tahoe Install Guide (macOS 26) helped me identify every major setting affecting system power or hogging memory. While they at first seemed inconsequential, turning them off completely fixed most all random memory spikes and constant loud fan usage required to cool down the overheated system. I also have a pretty new widescreen monitor with native settings that got reset or changed and became a part of power hogging and other issues. It ran fine at first, but Tahoe seemed to reset my ideal configurations somehow.

If your MacBook went from zippy to slow or is running its fans all the time, even when barely any apps are open, it might actually be these new defaults set to "improve" the UI transparency but actually just causing more issues.

Tahoe also for some reason reset much of my saved keychain access settings for no apparent reason, and reset user permissions on many key apps, causing haywire. I eventually was able to solve this through a brand-new user admin profile and individually adjusting user permissions on programs installed in the wrong location. Not every program has this problem but a few constantly needed to ask permission for everything and adjusting these permissions or moving them to a better folder eventually stopped this distracting practice almost completely for me.

I've never seen Apple drop the ball and release an OS update this problematic, it's really disappointing to see. The "glass" design overhaul causes far more problems than it's worth, turning it off is barely even noticeable to me, visually. Hope this can help anyone whose been stumped, it hasn't been easy to pinpoint.

I'm not exactly a technical expert, but please let me know if these issues are familiar to you or if you have specific questions. Doesn't seem solutions are that readily available to all.

u/KimBeeBloom — 2 months ago