WIBTD For transitioning in secret even though my mom is very proud of as a son? ( and it would be kinda dangerous)
Hello, peaches, Shaaba and Jaime! First post. Glad to share a story with you. Kinda hope I didn’t have to but I really need advice
Here we go
So, I (25 ) Closeted Trans woman, are disabled from birth, and due to health reasons I can’t take hormones , sadly,
Plus , my mom is always saying “ so glad you aren’t a girl, I wouldn’t have liked it “ , translation, my mother wouldn’t like having a daughter .
The problem is… I’m definitely a trans woman.
When I came out to my brother,
He went
“ you look like a boy, you are a boy”
Don’t judge em pls.
I’ve made peace with it,
The thing is. I Really want to do something to Look a little more feminine, at least face feminization surgery and being called my chosen name.
P. D : to be a part of my papa’s will ( no longer with us 🥺) I can’t even change my legal name ) I just want to be Treated Like a girl socially ) but I know they wouldn’t do that , once I’m able to live alone, not currently doing that. Would i be a bad person, a bad sister and a bad daughter if I did it in secret?
Thank you. I really appreciate your help
Sincerely, a motorized peach.