The people I always have a crush on are much older than me. And I’m talking teachers or colleagues (keep in mind, I’m 16 and they’re usually smth around 30-50). I’m in a happy relationship but there are just some people that I just can’t help think about and I don’t want it to mess up my current relationship!
Okay, so this is complicated. I want everyone to keep in mind, I’m happily taken with my partner and I have no intentions of doing anything, I just need to get this out somewhere!
(I’m AFAB/ assigned female at birth)
Okay. So I’m 16 and quite unfortunately, I’m doing my work experience at a charity shop! And it’s been going well but on Monday I realised that Uhm. I like a colleague. Now, this is a problem because she’s married (I believe) and has kids. Yeah, she’s probably in her forties? I’m not sure. But every time I see her, my heart jumps and I don’t know what to do or how to stop it.
I just can’t help it because she’s funny and kind. Yes, I thought she was weird at first but now I don’t know what to do! I don’t want this to get in the way of anything, nor do I want her to find out! Especially seeing as my mum and grandma know her! PERSONALLY.
But she’s kind, funny and pretty too. I don’t know what to do, someone please help me out!