u/Kintsugi-Shimi

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Hi!

I'm a 45 year old mom of 4 and a student working on a five year goal of moving my family to japan. I'm looking for a man around my age or life stage to take it slow with. Start out online, texts, FaceTime and then go from there. I want to be your best friend! I'm in no hurry to move in but visits aren't off the table. I just need stability at this point.

I write an Isekai serial pretty seriously in the few minutes of free time I have, and I exist almost entirely on Barbie Party Punch. My kids take up every waking second of my life that isn't dominated by school and my volunteer work.

I barely have any time for myself and I'm tired of spending it alone. I want to talk someone's ear off on FaceTime while we get high and giggle at stupid inside jokes that NO ONE else would find funny.

I really love music! I'm obsessed with Japanese Hip hop and metal. Awich, Chanmina, Jin Dogg, Maximum the Hormone, Ailifdopa! I'm branching into pop and all kinds of new things. I am an absolute nu metal girlie! I am unafraid to say I LOVE LIMP BIZKIT! Give me a 90s Playlist with something deeper than top 100s and you've won my heart! I've also just found Qveen Herby and I'm motivated to change my life!

I'm currently on a deep immersion of empathetic beatdown hardcore because those guys are so hot! If you love Fox Lake, Paleface Swiss or Get the Shot then we're gonna get along! Bonus points if you're in a band like that! Straight off stage? Mmm.

I used to like cooking but I don't anymore so if you can, that's a plus. I am dying to learn to be social after being isolated so long, so if your are, I need lessons in existing among others because it brings me so much joy!

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u/Kintsugi-Shimi — 17 days ago