How to tell NF I'm pregnant
I've been with my NF for almost 9 years. Since my oldest was a baby. I have 3 NK (9, 6, 5). I am 9 weeks pregnant and planning to wait til I get my NIPT test results back to tell them I'm pregnant. (Around 12 weeks) They are all aware this news is coming at some point- my husband and I have been working with a clinic due to infertility for the last year. Anywho. So I know they'll be excited, but it's obviously the start of a very very hard goodbye. I really want to make it special for my girls so that they feel loved and included in this massive change in all of our lives. They talk all the time about how they will babysit my kids one day.
Any ideas please tell me! Should I tell NP first? Or surprise everyone at the same time? Give me all the cute ideas, and NP please weigh in here on how you would feel. We're like family, they were at my wedding, but also obviously they are my bosses at the end of the day.