How do I know if it's a situationship?
How do I know if we're on a situationship phase or are we just friends? I cant ask that person yet I feel so conflicted and confused.
I needed clarity cause I'm confused and if it's not what I think it is while it's making me feel something a little different from what it actually should be, then I need to let go before this worsens.
But, I can't just ask that person "What are we?", I might end up wrong and thought of everything wrong..?
Are we silently on to something or am I overthinking?
It all started by wanting to be friends, we talked, and chatted through text. He ask me stuff, I ask him stuff. Not knowing we were communicating every SINGLE DAY.
One day, we were both laughing as we did not expect that we have been talking for a whole month, and we were both thinking "It feels like a week".
We still do, but I noticed that I am feeling a little uneasy.
We talked everyday and it feels as if he had become a part of my daily routine, that whenever he would randomly disappear for a whole day without notice due to certain reasons(like family, or sudden events) I would feel so lonely and get soooo annoyed. I would start to feel so shitty and yet even how mad I get, the moment he comes back to check up on me, it's all gone and normal again.
It's weird. It's confusing. I dont know if I'm liking him that way, I might be denying it but I can't also read him. He compliments me, tease me, jokes on me, but I dont really know what to think of it.
Our other friends starts to ask us if we're something, but both of us would ofcourse say, we're not. That we're just "friends".
But behind covers, it's just so beyond what's being said.
Does this sounds like I'm in a situationship rn? Or...
I dont really want to get into this more deeper. I'm kind of scared, and I'm scared if he said it is what I think it is, or the other way. Eitherway, I am scared.
Overthink.