Virgos get my goat
From the time I was a kid. I know I've vented about other signs in the past, but that was just it: venting. I had to think back over my whole childhood and realized that Virgos & I just never vibed. I DO love, honestly, 60% of the women, which *is* a mandate! But that 40% is a doozy. The men, forget it, 98% are just sh*t. We can't stand each other. That 40% of women too...it's bad. First of all, I have a Virgo aunt who basically ruined my life by miking chronic cancer for years (sorry not sorry). She treated me like an indentured servant, making me do ALL her errands, especially stupid grocery shopping, for like YEARS!!!!! 2018 - 2023. Lost the LAST remaining years of *any* relative youth.....I was still 40 - 45 ½. And heaven forbid I made a mistake, asked for payment, or the one time I told her I was going to Vegas to see a friend's indy film....she SHRIEKED at me like you wouldn't believe!!!! And that's just the tip of the iceberg. Awful.
Then the rest of that 40% of Virgoan women, gee, where do I begin? They LOVE to ask, "What are you doing here??" which is a very nasty and rude question and everyone knows it. The false modesty. "Ohh I'm *average-looking*! I'm not that prettyyyyy!!" Meanwhile flawless face, short philtrum, full lips, doe eyes, slender, big boobs...then wtf do you see me as? A goddamned bridge troll?? The snarkiness, smugness, superiority complex disguised as inferiority complex, and throwing shade. They always have to needle and get their digs in, like they just can help themselves. One recently said to me, "You don't *give up*, do you?!?!" about dating. She said it because it was a man I was actually attracted to who ghosted me after things were going great and I'm already struggling and sad. The ones who are snobby and will barely say hello to you. The ones who tell you to do things and not to do things. ("DON'T sing! DON'T laugh at me!!") (I wasn't laughing at anyone, by the way). There's this real "trudging through mud" feeling. The snottiness can be off the charts. They're allowed to be proud of their sign including and especially the celebrities, but they don't want Libra to! I said Jimmy Carter was a great man and one Virgo woman was like, "YOU don't know that!! *You* never met him!" Some Virgo female influencers truly HATE Libran women and can't even hide it and all they have to say is "they flirt a lot". No credit for anything deeper. I found such a bad Virgo "I hate Libra" post on Instagram once that I almost didn't feel safe. Yes, it was that bad.
And I *DO* feel bad when I think about that wonderful 60% of the women! They are the evolved, healed Virgos and they have beautiful personas. Kind, caring, helpful, encouraging, lift me up and give me compliments, compassionate, thoughtful...honestly I can't say enough good things about those individuals!!
But the ones I've clashed with, I've clashed. Our energies don't match or something, idk. And again this is from childhood. It often seems to be a matter of the Virgo girls/women and the Libra girls/women think very differently, behave very differently, and we don't understand each other. Who freaking knows? Maybe it's because I have no planets in Virgo. But I have no planets in Pisces either and we love each other!! I have no planets in Aries either and yes Aries is the second sign who gets on my goddamned nerves. I vibe *beautifully* with Cancer, Capricorn, Taurus, Pisces, and Scorpio and, thinking back, I have since I was a child. Yes I have met @$$holes in every sign, but that's obviously different as there will be bad apples in every bunch. So I know it's not a "me" thing.
What are your experiences?