Need help trying to figure out what's going on. Is this normal? Am i overthinking or being too much? Does he like me?
We're both in our late 20s and first relationship for both of us. He works 9-5 and has something going on full time and also does some other stuff (few days a week) so he's pretty busy. I'm just a regular 9-5 person. We only get to spend either Saturday/Sunday together, short mid-week dinner, and sometimes Friday evenings as well. We live 30 mins away from each other. We've been together for close to one month only. I have met his family a few times and his friends once.
I feel like I'm always pushing to meet or asking when we'll be seeing each other again. I don't wish for him to give up whatever he has been doing just to see me so I usually suggest days I know he is available. He will usually say 'maybe' and will usually end up meeting. I'm not sure if he enjoys spending time with me or is just doing it for the sake of doing it. I feel like he's not eager or excited to see me. I have also asked him to stay the night multiple times but I always get rejected. His reasoning is that he has work at 9am the next day but it's he doesn't have to go to the office. I have to go in to the office at 8am so I mentioned before that he can leave in the morning when I leave for work so he can still start work at 9am. But he still said no. Is he not into me as much or am I just overthinking? I thought sleeping over is normal in a relationship? Especially how we've been together for less than a month, shouldn't we be trying to spend as much time together as possible. Doesn't really feel like we're in a "honeymoon period". Does the honeymoon period not exist when you're in your late 20s? I feel stupid and embarrassed when I ask him to meet or when I tell him to sleepover. I feel like I'm a low value person as the feeling is not being reciprocated. Am I stupid for requesting to meet or ask him to stay the night in a relationship? Is he serious about me?
I'm not too sure if he actually cares about me. But he does things for me. For example, he's into cars so he helped me fix something in my car. But one day, I was sick and said I wanted to eat something but he just brushed it off. I'm just wondering if he's not caring because he never grew up with a caring mother figure, he is also an only child, and never been in a relationship? I would usually care for the person especially when they're sick.
He also doesn't update me about anything/his day. He will just disappear for a few hours to see his friend or something (I will find out about this few days after or if the topic comes up). I have mentioned before that I would prefer to know what he's doing or if he's going out with friends etc just so that I won't be wondering what he is up to. Just feels nice to know what the other person is up to. I share about my day or whatever I'm up to. Nothing has changed since. When we meet everything is fine, but when we don't, it feels like we're just platonic friends as I don't know anything about his day and he also doesn't ask me anything about mine. I have also said before that it's nice to have a call once in a while on days we don't see each other but he only called once after I said this. I don't want to call him because I don't want to disturb him and I feel like I am annoying him if I were to call. I'm wondering if this is too much to ask for or is this normal in a relationship to want to know what the other person is up to. It's my first relationship so idk what is normal or too much.
First relationship so I'm clueless about things. Please let me know if I am being too much. I am already trying to be understanding about everything but sometimes I can't help but to feel upset about things.
Any advice?
TLDR is my boyfriend into me?