u/Kiyochinee

For context, I really want to do things for the first time with my boyfriend. I have never had penetration sex before but he has. I have been on the pill for a few years now but I know that pregnancy is still possible. I told him that | want to use condoms but he said he hates the way they feel and would rather just wait until I'm ready for unprotected sex (he's willing to just do other forms of sex to please each other). He also claims that on top of the birth control he's going to pull out.

I'm mostly just curious with how much I should trust birth control as a contraceptive, because it's not like I don't want to have sex with him. I do not want to have a baby as I'm still quite young.