u/Klutzy_Set_8123

I just lost my first real relationship with someone who I loved a lot we were dating for around 4 years. I made a mistake of trying to reach out and she was just nasty to me which is a weird contrast to how she broke up with me. It seems like she doesn't care anymore and that hurts seeing as we've been in each other's lives for a decent amount of time I asked if in the future we could maybe be friends she said no. I'm just having a hard time going from being on good terms to her hating me. I'm so conflicted on what I as a person want, like I love her but I don't know if she even cares about me as a person anymore. Not to mention Towards the end of the relationship like a year or so she was rude, snarky, and distant and wouldn't tell me anything. I'm kinda just ranting but I thought I'd ask for some advice on what to do from people who are going through the same thing.

I personally believe being trans is gender dysphoria which is a mental illness, and I feel that they need help. I mean the suicide rate for trans people is a lot higher than non trans people and it can't be solely to discrimination because if that were the case Jewish people would have a high suicide rate. I just think we as a society need to not normalize people not being comfortable in their bodies and help people accept who they are.