u/KodaGlobe2291

I am asking for real advice, not just comfort. We broke up 4 months ago. No contact for most of that time. But I still think about them every single day. I want to text them just to see how they are doing. Not to beg or argue. Just to say hello.

Has anyone here reached out after a long silence and had it go well? Or is it always a mistake? I need to hear both sides. I do not want to romanticize this. I just want to know if a simple check in is ever worth the risk of reopening the wound.