I asked him for re-entry fee and he asked what he’ll get in return
For context, I (28) am seeing this guy (41) for few months, he has a successful career, I know he has money. So recently he’s only been popping up and disappearing for few days and this cycle has been going on for two months with no dates. I’ve voiced my needs and preference of seeing each other more consistently.
I’ve also tried ending it twice with the same reason and he basically told me he disagreed and still wanted to date me (first try he immediately made plans, second time he made some excuses and we ended up texting some more and maybe these made him think that I accept bare minimum and I’m done with it).
Then I decided to ask for a re-entry fee (a bag costs about $500). I had never done this before, I never asked even my exes to buy me stuff so this is so out of my comfort zone. But I’m tired of being taken for granted.
I genuinely didn’t expect him to reply I thought he’d just be silent lol. Or not even bother entertaining. What should I do?? And with him asking what he’ll get? Like I don’t know what to say now