Hei,
Har ca 50.000 som jeg ønsker å spare. Kommer til å kjøpe ny leilighet om 2-3 år, men har allerede en leilighet og en del egenkapital bundet opp til den, så usikker på om jeg har behov for de 50.000 når jeg skal kjøpe leilighet. Har vurdert 50/50 global index og høyrentekonto/rentefond, ev. 75/25 split. Har dere noen tips?
My GF went out to a nightclub with her friends last night. At some point during the evening, while she was ordering a drink at the bar, a guy started talking to her. Apparently he was funny and seemed kind, and he asked her for her instagram which she gave to him. They were hanging out for a bit before my GF went back to dancing with her friends. She told me this herself while we caught up the day after.
Now, I don't believe she did this with the intent of cheating, I fully trust her. I don't mind her having guy friends, which she already does. And I don't mind her talking to other guys while out with her friends, she's good looking and its natural for her to be hit on. However, what I do find uncomfortable is the fact that she gave her instagram to this guy. She said that her intent isn't anything romantic, however, to me it seemed like he's interested in her or at least to get to know her better, and that giving out socials might then give a wrong impression. We had a small argument and she really couldn't see my point of the story. I told her if its someone she studies with, someone from work, mutual friends or that her friend group as a whole met another group of guys and the guys asked for their socials or whatever it would be cool, however, if a single guy starts to talk to only you at a nightclub then its a different story. We are in a monogamous relationship.
Do you guys have any advice as to how we can navigate this? Am I overreacting?