u/Lamynt

▲ 1 r/ptsd

I feel like I can't Function In Society.

I grew up witnessing domestic violence against my mom, and my mom's closest friend at the time. I hear of so many disgusting men. So many sexual assaults in all forms, so much violence, manipulation. My girlfriend, and my ex were both in abusive relationships, and it has made me not only distrustful, but nearly violent and afraid. I was diagnosed with PTSD, Anxiety, and Depression. I hear of so many instances of men taking advantage of their significant other. It makes my blood boil. I met a girl was SA'd at gunpoint, and I can't stand to see the red flags in men. I saw a man screaming at a woman in the dollar store, yelling over her and getting into her face... It makes me wonder what goes on behind closed doors. What do I do? The only rationalization I have is "she could leave, but she just wont" but on the other hand, my being wants to commit heinous violence against these threats. I don't trust men, and it drains me to be around them. I will lose sleep hearing of a girl's story - i dont even have to know her. But i will lose sleep for weeks. Seeing these men being allowed to exist, and take advantage of women, and children, it makes me want to commit the most heinous violence on these men. I know I shouldn't and I can't but I don't know what to do. I am debilitatingly empathetic to women even if I dont know them - which tires my girlfriend. But men, I am always on fight or flight, and I dont regard the life of a man to be worth anything compared to women and children. And my sweet puppies. I know I'm wrong, and justa mentally ill idiot, but I just struggle so much. I am a loner nowadays, my girlfriend even thinks I'm an emotional vampire. It is all so much, and I can't be happy knowing somewhere a woman or child is being raped or beaten, and I can'tdo anything. If something happens to a man, i dont even blink,

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u/Lamynt — 1 day ago
▲ 3 r/ptsd

hey mods? can i get some assistance? i want to vent, and pray someone can tell me why I am wrong - maybe help my thought process.

i'm not a violent person by any means, but my ptsd with domestic violence and SA towards women. I am a recluse who can't even go to the dollar store - can we talk about what i want to say? because the server thought i was promoting violence, but it just my mental tendencies that i am scared of. I dont want anyone hurt. I'm so desperately disconnected from humanity... I don't feel like one. I don't trust or connect to anybody, and I live in fight or flight in public. I've just seen too much domestic abuse. It makes me want to lash out, but THAT is my greatest fear.

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u/Lamynt — 2 days ago