u/LanfearSedai

Found this kitten today in south Tulsa. The neighbors said they’ve seen several litters of kittens recently and this one is just the one that I happened across. They said at least 6 cats they know of have been picked off by coyotes recently.

She walked right up to us and wanted to be petted and touched, rolled over for belly rubs. Didn’t fight me when we put her in a box. She is incredibly sweet and loving!

I brought her to my vet and got her treated for fleas and mites and dewormed though we don’t see any, and got her blood tested which came back clean — no leukemia, aids, etc. She is 6-7 months old, good health. She is a mama but her milk is almost dried up so no longer nursing.

She needs a home, but I can’t keep her as I already have 6 cats at home. The vet is full as well.

I hate shopping for clothes, always have. I have no idea what to buy for myself and when I find something I don’t hate, I keep it forever.

My wife has made it very very very plain that she is incredibly sick of seeing the same clothes for years at a time, I need advice.

The relevant things are that I am quite short, especially legs. 5’0 exactly. My measurements fluctuate quite a bit up and down, and these are random captures from what few photos I have over the past few years. I’m probably in the middle of this size right now. Mid 40’s, professional. I always have wide hips and butt regardless of the rest of my size fluctuations.

I mostly feel comfortable dressed this way, I very often wear a jacket or hoodie or sweater to cover up as I am not comfortable with my shape. My entire wardrobe aside from a few shirts like these here and there is T-shirts we randomly get from souvenir shops or fun run events etc, and they are pretty much always ill fitting.

I won’t wear dresses or skirts or frills or anything too feminine, but I do want to be dressed appropriately for a woman for office work or going out for drinks or whatever the event may be. I despise the “girl sleeves” that are just tiny triangles, so I mostly end up with 3/4 sleeves to avoid them. I need new shoes too, since I’m on the topic. I just barely got used to skinny jeans and the style is out now I have heard, but it feels like wide legs will make me look even shorter and thicker so no idea what to do.

Comfort is very important to me, I want to be able to sit and walk normally and not worry that my clothes are going to malfunction or need constant adjustment. Thanks all.