The "just get a hobby" advice doesn't work anymore for 20-40 years old people
[Context: 27M, Madrid]
I don't understand why this advice gets posted everywhere, when people of this generation (zoomers and some millenials) are mostly absent from hobby clubs and acticities. The few ones are also the most flacky and unfriendly of all members (at least in my experience).
Somebody will say "just go to conventions", despite its cliquey nature.
Or "just join pickleball or whatever amateur sport league"; so far, the only one I could find was just for tourist.
Or "just meetup", despite the fact that this app is mostly dead here.
And I'm not saying it's just dating: Even getting new friends after college has become almost impossible right now.
Edit: For the last time, I keep my own hobbies regardless of this reality, I'm not a hermit!!