This morning I noticed a lump in my armpit. It’s small and feels like a marble but it’s stiff not squishy in any way. My family has a history of breast cancer. My grandma got stage 4 cancer 3 times and two other aunts got it. One died. I have not cut my skin with a razor or anything like that. I don’t have the money to go the the doctor every time I panic and think I’m about to die so should I get this looked at or no
So I just found out that my bf as been talking to another girl now as far as I know nothing sexual has happened between them.
However he has been talking to her for about a month. He’s a cop and ig he met her at a toco bell at 2 am. Got to talking. He is wanting to start his own business. And I guess she had some information regarding starting an LLC
I briefly read through the messages and saw that he had asked her if she liked hot or cold showers. That’s the only thing that I saw that was. Kind of sexual just for the aspect of why are you asking another girl about a shower?
It looked like he also asked her to meet up at Taco Bell again, a few nights ago.
My thought process is why have I never heard anything about her? And why is he asking another girl to meet up without asking or tell me.
Am I overthinking/ reacting
Ok I’m going to try and make this quick. I 21f have a boyfriend 31m. I have lived with him for 2 years Ben dating a year. We were friends with benefits before we started dating. For the most part are relationship is good. But I have noticed a drastic change in are sex life. We used to have sex multiple times a week now lately the last 6 months or so it been closer to once or twice a month. But he masturbates quite a bit. I’m not sure the exact amount this last week at least three times. And when we do have sex 95% time halfway through he’ll look at porn. I don’t feel like he’s attracted to me anymore and I feel like a third wheel in my relationship and it’s really starting to take a toll. I broken down crying like 4 times this week. I haven’t gained any weight I haven’t changed I just don’t understand why he doesn’t want to be intimate with me. He has a tiny house in the backyard and I’m strongly considering moving my stuff back there and just telling him. I’m not breaking up with you, but I want you to put in some effort and show that you actually want me and want this cause right now I don’t feel it.