u/Last_Click1903

One thing about BTS is their genuineness beyond their talents which attracts and binds their fans. They are loved and cared by fans. They love and care about fans.
If they are disappointed by fans they talk through it with fans with deep sense of belonging and affection as if they treat them equals. Same is happening - fans are seeing and trying to express with deep sense of belonging.
It’s on brand for both of the parties to react the way they do in these situations. They are free to choose to draw boundaries and fans have and will learn to respect the boundaries.
But the thoughts are mutual.
Fans also have boundaries, and them expressing is hard on the boys but is it invalid if large portion of these are women?
Art and artists cant be separated in this influential world of social media certainly not when artist is being controversial in that category of woman abuse.

Boys are safe space for many - building so much expectations from them is wrong they don’t owe us anything. Its merely expressing thoughts - they are free to take it or ignore it.
Remember a poet who said - these are bonds and threads of love and affection which once broken can be joined but will always have knots to remind. Which is a learning for everyone. Saying things to people you care about is not hating them its still loving them.

No one is cancelling no one - its not pushing them pulling them as quoted from Normal - its a point of view - would be happy to see them consider it - but sucks if they wont - doesn’t mean fans hate them? Hate is very strong word for what these fandom thinks about these boys - care and affection is centre stone and that is what I think is coming through - dont fight each other guys - its a POV lets respect it if not agree to it.

Metlife day1 was beautiful. Not saying they werent but the whole time sticking phones in their faces - Namjoon told us to put phone down.
Some one literally was illegally recording, they got pulled over by the security. Record jump then record some more.