u/Late_Gap7487

can y’all tell us about your first date ever or maybe your favorite date so far with someone you’ve met online? I need hope 🥲

It’s sad how I made this account just to get this out of my chest and delete it after a few days for obvious reasons.
I just turned 18 and it hit me that I’ve genuinely never experienced love in any way. No relationship, no talking stage that actually went somewhere, nothing. I know 18 is still young, but being alone your whole life starts to weigh on you after a while.
Hookups have never really been my thing either. I don’t want random validation or sex just for the sake of it, I want something meaningful. I want someone who actually likes me romantically, someone I can connect with emotionally and feel safe with.
What makes it harder is how oversexualized we are. A lot of tops seem to only see us sexually, like we’re desirable physically but not someone they’d genuinely want to love or date seriously. And after seeing that over and over, it starts making you wonder if real connection is even possible sometimes.
Without mentioning how cautious you should be not giving your socials and stuff.