r/MoroccoLGBT

Hey everyone! I just wanted to say hello and introduce myself. I’m 21, male, and gay, and I’m really happy to finally be part of this community.

I recently came out to myself (if that makes sense) and, for the first time, truly embraced myself for who I am. Honestly, I’ve never felt more free or happier. It feels like I’ve finally won a long-lasting battle with myself, and it’s been quite a journey getting here.

Growing up with certain social expectations, restraints, and ways of thinking made it difficult for me to accept this part of myself. But since I started embracing who I am, I’ve felt much more authentic. I’ve also become more ambitious and motivated when it comes to my goals and my future.

I’m curious to hear from others here: when you finally started accepting yourself and letting go of some of the expectations you grew up with, did you notice anything change in the way you see yourself or your life?

Another night watching porn , jerking off...

Ughhh when real love gonna find me ...

(Im not looking to meet someone through this post or even chat i dont the energy for it, its just a feeling i have every night and i wanted to.share it)

I'm a bottom, not that feminine, but I like cooking for the man I'm with. Men like having someone cook for them. I used to think, "Oh, they only want this from women," but it turns out they like it even with a gay partner. I've cooked for many men I've been with, and it always seems to work and they love it, and I feel like they love you even more when you do something like that for them.

I'm talking about this because this weekend I was with a man at his house. He works Saturday morning, and the rest of the weekend was free, so he invited me over and left the key with the concierge for me. I went a little early because I needed to get ready for him.

When I entered the kitchen, I found some spaghetti and ground beef, so I decided to cook. I couldn't find any ingredients for tomato sauce, so I made a white sauce with just butter, garlic, cheese, and cream.

When he arrived and smelled the food cooking, he was so happy. He started kissing me, thanking me, and telling me that I was "wife material" haha ( I was wearing some girly stuff), so I felt really happy that he liked the whole idea.

We ate together and stayed home for the whole afternoon before going out to watch Spider-Man.

I am looking for someone around my age to be in relationship , never been in one . Preferably in casablanca

(Long-ish nonsensical rant ahead. Enjoy)

25F. Bi. It's been a little over a year since I had broken off a serious 2-year relationship (which was... eventful to say the least).

I think I'm ready to dip my toes into the dating pool again, casually at first then seeing where it leads. But on one hand, my ex turned me off from any form of entanglement. On the other hand, I kind of forgot how to date.

I used to loooove first dates, now I'm lucky if I keep myself/the other person interested during a talking stage.

Mostly the whole thing is redundantly demeaning to everyone involved (imo) because it's as if we're advertising ourselves? Like we're monkeys in a zoo doing our little monkey tricks and dances and screaming: "please see me how my friends see me, you'll find out that I'm a sweet treat to be around and a damn catch"??!

Maybe I'm too old for this and should get Mom to arrange a marriage for me, or too tired, or both.

I'm a 23-year-old guy who just spent his entire life trapped in a high-tech survival bunker deep underground. Now that the blast doors are finally open, I'm looking for a surface dweller who isn't afraid of a guy who gets way too excited about indoor plumbing, panics at the sight of pigeons, and has parents whose music taste is entirely stuck on pre-war 1950s vinyl.

​Down in the bunker, I worked as an accounting manager for the vault's survival administration ,handling all our tax, social, and resource declarations while trying to figure out why you surface folks pay for electricity instead of just rationing fusion cells.

​Standing at six-foot-five, I'm hoping to find someone patient enough to explain surface concepts like rain, seasons, and social media, while being down for long-distance weekend road trips or grabbing a drink. If you're ready for a first meetup where you show me a crowded city bar and I tell you way too much about corporate accounting under post-apocalyptic regulations, slide into my DMs. Let's stop settling for sterile vault life and go truly wild.

I swear every gay person I know is studying something impressive — medicine, engineering, computer science, etc

And then there’s me and my best friend studying some random ass majors 💀

At this point I’m starting to think the gays in my life are just built different lmao

Friend dyal my gf talked with me and said that Im beautiful and wanted to meet mee !
My gf t9al9at bzeef wakha reh ta my friend katdwi meaha o my gf kat3teha compliments etc w ana ma9alt walo het I trust my gf o tta my friend.
But Im sure that her friend likes me
Ashno banlikom ?
Im F btw

Why our community find it impossible to believe that you not ready for a relationship or don't want it anymore or hookups but want a nice good friendship or just chat want nothing

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I’ve been thinking about how little space there is for trans men in the Moroccan LGBT community.

A lot of trans women seem to have a closer connection with women’s communities, and gay men naturally have their own spaces and communities. But as trans men, I feel like we often end up somewhere in between. We may not fully feel at home in lesbian spaces anymore, but we also don’t necessarily feel included or understood in gay male spaces, nor straight cis men.

There’s a particular experience of being a trans man in Morocco that I think deserves its own space. And honestly, I don’t think that community really exists yet.

So I’d like to start building one.

If you’re a trans man in Morocco and you’ve ever felt similarly, DM me or leave a comment. It could be as simple as creating a small group where we can talk, share experiences, help each other navigate things, or just know that there are other people going through similar experiences.

I had pretty long hair. Not extremely long, but long enough that I really liked it. My hair looked good on me, and all my friends used to compliment it and tell me how nice it looked. I honestly felt really attached to it, especially because I knew my hair didn't look as good when it was short.

Recently, my mom found out that I was hanging out with some friends who smoke. She also found out about my ear piercing. She got really frustrated and started becoming more strict with me.

As time went on, she kept telling me to cut my hair. At first I tried to ignore it, but she kept bringing it up over and over again. Eventually, we had a huge argument, and I couldn't handle the pressure anymore. I just cut my hair.

The worst part is that even after I cut it, the arguments didn't stop. Now she's also constantly telling me what kind of clothes I should wear, like telling me not to wear baggy jeans. It feels like there's always something about my appearance or the people I hang out with that she has a problem with.

Whenever we fight, I get so angry and overwhelmed that I leave the house and sleep at a friend's place. She absolutely hates when I do that, but honestly, sometimes I just can't stand being at home when she's there. I feel like I need to get away from her just to breathe and calm down.

I don't know if I'm overreacting or if this situation is actually as bad as it feels to me. I understand that my mom is probably worried about me, especially because of the smoking situation, but I also feel like I'm losing control over my own life and appearance.

I really don't know what to do anymore. How would you handle this situation? Am I wrong for feeling this way?

Why is it hard to find gay friends over 30 in Casablanca? I'm 37 and it seems everyone my age is having a double life aka "married", and they have to do "their living" behind closed doors, since outside they can't be seen hanging out with other guys. It's just f***ing sad!

I'm quite confident in my looks and personality but i still end up talking to the wrong people ALL TIME except some few dudes but we stay friends either 'cuz of the long distance or cuz they are already in a relationship :/

I have just used Tinder for the past days, and it seems okay!

Like genuinely where do you find dates?

What do you guys think about dating someone with a disability, specifically someone who uses a wheelchair? Do you think that would be an issue?

28f , light skinned , 170 cm , 65 kg , black tall hair , if u're a male , above 26yo, u're good at sex , I mean good and healthy , gym rat and take good good care of ur health , have ur std blood work done, ready to go get A VASECTOMY before us signing the marriage contract... Dm me sweet lucky groom.

Ever since I realized I was gay, I’ve always been attracted to guys and loved kissing, cuddling, making out, being close, etc. But when it came to sex… absolutely nothing 😭

I honestly didn’t really understand it before. I kept thinking maybe I just hadn’t found the right person or maybe I was supposed to eventually enjoy it.

Then I actually tried sex and… nope 💀 I felt literally nothing. It was just like space… nothingness. Meanwhile, people talk about sex like it’s this amazing, pleasurable experience, and I was just there thinking, “Girl… is this it?”

But kissing and cuddling? THAT is fabulous. I absolutely love that shit. Give me affection, cuddles and making out and I’m happy

I also really like the idea of having a boyfriend, having someone who cares about me, going out together, spending time together, and just having that romantic connection. But when it comes to sex… nope.

The frustrating part is that whenever I try to meet someone and they find out I’m asexual, they immediately lose interest. Like, I still want love, affection, romance, and a relationship — I just don’t want the sexual part

So yeah, after thinking about it for a while, I’m pretty sure I’m somewhere on the asexual spectrum.

Honestly, it’s kinda wild realizing this about myself now lol.

Two weeks ago, I was in Marina Smir, and I was scrolling on Grindr on the beach when I received a message from a guy asking where I was. I told him I was on the beach. He told me he was there too and asked if we could meet.

He turned out to be a Black guy. I accepted to go meet him because there were some friends with me, and I couldn't meet someone gay while they were around. He also told me he wasn't alone, but that it was fine for him to talk in front of his friend, so I went.

I found them easily they were the only two Black guys there. I shook hands with them, and they invited me to sit with them. We sat and talked a bit about life and what they were doing there. They were residents in Morocco, working in Rabat. We talked a little about our sexual orientations. I told them I was a bottom; one of them was a top, and the other was bisexual and vers.

They asked me why I liked bottoming, and I explained to them why. After that, they invited me to eat at a restaurant there with a Spanish name, something like "Chringuito" or something. So we went. They were so fucking nice the whole time. We ate and then went back to the beach.

The one I had been talking to started telling me that he liked my profile pictures on Grindr and that I was his type. His friend jumped in and said, "My type too." I asked them why, and they told me they liked white boys with big 🍑 and that they had never met someone who was white and a bottom. They asked me if I liked Black guys, and I told them, "Yes." He said, "So we have a match now." I told him, "Yes."

We spent another 30 minutes there, and then they asked me if I wanted to go with them to the place they had rented. I told them yes. It was in Fnideq, so we went there in their car. They started flirting with me in the car, and when we arrived, we went inside.

While I was entering the house, I noticed people looking at us weirdly. I told them I felt like something was wrong because people were looking at us strangely. He told me not to worry and said that this was how people had been looking at them since they rented the house because they felt like the neighbors didn't like having Black guys around. That made me feel a little better.

We entered the house. It was beautiful and calm. I told them I needed to shower, so I went to shower. When I came back, I saw them making out on the couch. They told me to sit with them, so I did. I was only wearing a towel, and we started making out, and the rest is known.

After we finished, they asked me to stay with them until the evening because they were going out to a nice place. So I stayed, and we slept together after sex until around 7 p.m., before going out.

They were so nice to me the whole time, and they were really good at sex, talking, and everything.