u/Loud-Morning9686

I swear every gay person I know is studying something impressive — medicine, engineering, computer science, etc

And then there’s me and my best friend studying some random ass majors 💀

At this point I’m starting to think the gays in my life are just built different lmao

I’m looking for recommendations based on the quality of education, reputation, student life, and opportunities after graduation.

Which ones would you recommend, and which ones should I avoid?

I’m looking for recommendations based on the quality of education, reputation, student life, and opportunities after graduation.

Which ones would you recommend, and which ones should I avoid?

Ever since I realized I was gay, I’ve always been attracted to guys and loved kissing, cuddling, making out, being close, etc. But when it came to sex… absolutely nothing 😭

I honestly didn’t really understand it before. I kept thinking maybe I just hadn’t found the right person or maybe I was supposed to eventually enjoy it.

Then I actually tried sex and… nope 💀 I felt literally nothing. It was just like space… nothingness. Meanwhile, people talk about sex like it’s this amazing, pleasurable experience, and I was just there thinking, “Girl… is this it?”

But kissing and cuddling? THAT is fabulous. I absolutely love that shit. Give me affection, cuddles and making out and I’m happy

I also really like the idea of having a boyfriend, having someone who cares about me, going out together, spending time together, and just having that romantic connection. But when it comes to sex… nope.

The frustrating part is that whenever I try to meet someone and they find out I’m asexual, they immediately lose interest. Like, I still want love, affection, romance, and a relationship — I just don’t want the sexual part

So yeah, after thinking about it for a while, I’m pretty sure I’m somewhere on the asexual spectrum.

Honestly, it’s kinda wild realizing this about myself now lol.

Ever since I realized I was gay, I’ve always been attracted to guys and loved kissing, cuddling, making out, being close, etc. But when it came to sex… absolutely nothing 😭

I honestly didn’t really understand it before. I kept thinking maybe I just hadn’t found the right person or maybe I was supposed to eventually enjoy it.

Then I actually tried sex and… nope 💀 I felt literally nothing. It was just like space… nothingness. Meanwhile, people talk about sex like it’s this amazing, pleasurable experience, and I was just there thinking, “Girl… is this it?”

But kissing and cuddling? THAT is fabulous. I absolutely love that shit. Give me affection, cuddles and making out and I’m happy

I also really like the idea of having a boyfriend, having someone who cares about me, going out together, spending time together, and just having that romantic connection. But when it comes to sex… nope.

The frustrating part is that whenever I try to meet someone and they find out I’m asexual, they immediately lose interest. Like, I still want love, affection, romance, and a relationship — I just don’t want the sexual part

So yeah, after thinking about it for a while, I’m pretty sure I’m somewhere on the asexual spectrum.

Honestly, it’s kinda wild realizing this about myself now lol.

Ever since I realized I was gay, I’ve always been attracted to guys and loved kissing, cuddling, making out, being close, etc. But when it came to sex… absolutely nothing 😭

I honestly didn’t really understand it before. I kept thinking maybe I just hadn’t found the right person or maybe I was supposed to eventually enjoy it.

Then I actually tried sex and… nope 💀 I felt literally nothing. It was just like space… nothingness. Meanwhile, people talk about sex like it’s this amazing, pleasurable experience, and I was just there thinking, “Girl… is this it?”

But kissing and cuddling? THAT is fabulous. I absolutely love that shit. Give me affection, cuddles and making out and I’m happy

I also really like the idea of having a boyfriend, having someone who cares about me, going out together, spending time together, and just having that romantic connection. But when it comes to sex… nope.

The frustrating part is that whenever I try to meet someone and they find out I’m asexual, they immediately lose interest. Like, I still want love, affection, romance, and a relationship — I just don’t want the sexual part

So yeah, after thinking about it for a while, I’m pretty sure I’m somewhere on the asexual spectrum.

Honestly, it’s kinda wild realizing this about myself now lol.

Hey guys, I just wanna say something I’ve been noticing a lot in our community.

There are so many people constantly trying to fit into a certain image of what they think they’re supposed to be. Acting a certain way, pretending to be someone they’re not, putting others down just to look “cool,” or desperately trying to get attention and validation.

Honestly, just be yourself.

You don’t have to act like a “queen,” a “diva,” a top, a bottom, masc, fem, or whatever label people are obsessed with. You’re a human being before anything else. Be kind. Be respectful. Have a personality outside of what other people expect from you.

And especially to the younger people in the community: you don’t need to prove anything to anyone. You don’t become cooler by being mean, disrespectful, or constantly looking for attention. You don’t need to rush into acting “grown” or copying what you see older people doing online. Focus on yourself, your studies, your future, and becoming someone you’re actually proud of

And this isn’t me saying everyone has to behave the same way. Be loud, be feminine, be masculine, be shy, be weird, be whatever the hell you want — as long as you’re not hurting or disrespecting other people.
The community already has enough judgment coming from outside. We really don’t need to create more of it among ourselves

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Stop performing. Stop competing. Stop trying to impress everyone

Just be yourself, be kind, and let other people be themselves too❤️

How do y’all actually find a boyfriend like fr? 😭

Please don’t tell me Grindr or Tinder because those places are full of weirdos 💀 I’m talking about an actual real relationship — not something that lasts 3 weeks or is basically built around sex.

Like, where do you guys meet people who genuinely want to get to know you, build something together, and actually stay?

I’m genuinely curious because at this point I have no idea where people find serious relationships 😭

Hey guys! I’m trying to decide what I should study, and I’m honestly pretty confused.

I’m considering programming, software development, or IT, but I keep seeing people saying that these fields don’t have much of a future because of AI.
Is that actually true? 🤔

If you were starting from zero in 2026, would you still choose programming/software development/IT? Which one would you recommend, and what area do you think has the best future?

I’d also really appreciate recommendations for schools, institutes, or universities in Rabat or Temara where I could study one of these fields.

I’m looking for honest opinions, especially from people who are already studying or working in tech.

Thanks