u/Infinite-News6560

We the gays love to spill tea and gossip, BUT PLEASE THIS HABBIT NEEDS TO BE CHANGED, even if the one who asks you about a specific person is your friend tryna get to know somebody, always tell them "i have no clue" w mridna ma3ando bas, you ain't God to show them the right from the wrong, sometimes we think by being open and helpful to our friends and telling em the truth about people we're protecting em but in fact you will be the bad guy by the end.

I did something i regretted doing but it's too late now i just hope it won't get to that dude. Months ago, i was friends with this dude living nextdoors and we vibed for months and months and i knew he was in GRINDR all day everyday, so i gave him a lil advice for his safety, i told him be careful there are some hiv+ people here, and everyday since then he was pressuring me to know who until i told him who but i made him promise me to never tell him or insult him cuz that hiv+ dude was an old dude i used to know as "friends" but i stopped being friends with him cuz he was just a bad influence. Time went by and me and this new dude had a fight and broke our friendship cuz he was nothing but a narcissitic who is insecure and hating other queer people even tho he himself is gay.

FUCK I SHOULDN'T HAVE TOLD HIM ABOUT THAT DUDE w khayf laywslha lih, i don't think he would do so cuz he'd be scared i'd out him if he did so BUT I JUST FUCKING HATE HOW WE THINK WE ARE HELPING EM STAY SAFE MEANWHILE WE ARE JUST RUINING OURSELVES.

the reason why i wrote this post was just to tell y'all سبق الميم ترتاح everyday all day. 3amrak t3ti lbnadam ras lkhayt 3la bndam khor wla 3la rask.

Have a good night!

What makes me think about immigration is the opportunity to make more money and to live a great lifestyle. But i'm worried that with time i'd want to get married and have kids and idk if any of those 2 options are suitable with the whole idea of raising kids.

However, when i look at the situation here and how doctors are facing new laws that make us slaves to the system i get so hesitant.

Should i think about doing equivalency test for Germany or the US, or instead stay in Morocco and get ready to be a slave (talking about the new GST system)?

A friend is inviting me to chill with his friends and get drunk for the 1st time. I wanna try, but i don’t wanna be addicted or smt. I just want a first time!

Any advice?

THE MAJORITY OFC!! not everybody, because i know some amazing people. But still!!

3lach nta katkon ghadi m3ahom mzyan w homa baghin ghaynta9mo man hada w hada w ydwiw b khayb 3la ba3diyatom w 3ada kayn li7as braso ra howa raboka l a3la. 3amri n3awd ndkhl dik application lkharya (grindr) even the friendships made up from there are shit.

Ps: i’m writing this post feeling angry cuz i just had a huge fight in the street with a gay friend who lives nearby and i was close to him. I’ve always spotted his flows but I NEVER MENTIONED EM TO HIM gha bach mayb9ach fih l7al and YET howa l3aks kaybda 3liya 3lach katmacha w katmil janbi (i have problems sometimes walking straight lol like you know many people can’t walk str8 w katb9a mra mra t9iso b katfak w kda). He said to me if u gon bump on me again let’s not meet anymore (we’ve been friends for 4 months meeting everyday) and i always listened to his problems even tho i be so drained emotionally i still give him time but he was all time NEGATIVE ( i should have stopped beinv friends long time ago i just didn’g wanna lose a queer guy living next to me wsf), and today when he said it this way we kept on arguing til we started fighting and throwing hands. I had to stop myself and told him let’s walk and not say a thing tanbardo, wsalna lwa7ad blasa chdito man dra3o w jit an3an9o ngolih sorry if not walking str8 or me hanging my arm around your shoulder makes you uncomfy and that i wouldn’t do it again (wa5a ra it’s all normal w i’m a very discrete guy so ra makan3aya9ch gha howa lima9ros man aya 7aja, we be standing in some neighborhood kaygoliya 7ayad mnhna anbano mchbohin and tf we’re just standjng like any regular dudes, and i never criticized him!!!), 7ayad liya idi w galiya ana makan7maaalch liy9isji w sf drab fiya w zad f7alo (HE MIGHT BE READING THIS POST, AND IF YOU WERE HIM PLEASE NEVER TEXT ME BACK AND FORGET EVERYTHING WE EVER HAD AS FRIENDS). Sf rja3t ldar galt lih sorry if i made uncomfortable (even tho i don’t see wtf is wrong with him like as many people tana makan7asch brasi takanl9a rasi i don’t walk in a str8 line) mohim b9ayt akantlab mno sma7a. Khsar 3liya kalma wa7da ser raja3 rask w 3ina mandwiw m3k matb9ach t3aya9 ( i always act manly and make sure not to show off anything w gha 7itach 3ziz 3liya i used to to lean on him f tri9 in a no zesty way lol and i be telljng him clmpliments apparement ma3jboch dakxi). I BLOCKED HIM DABA W THANIT wakha j feel bad wasting 4 months being friends with a judgey toxic guy.

I’m 21yo and he’s 18yo for reference.

I’m verh sorry tawalat 3likom had drama w rwina but i neeeeeded somewhere to share this :/

No more community for me except the few amazing people i met from this sub irl!

Ach ban likom f hadchi? Ps: khona nsit magaltch f post bli he lied chhal hadi about his name 3 FUCKING TIMES!!! kan awl mra tla9ina galiya akram and when we kept on meeting everyday for a month i found out in his tiktok acc he had a different name galiya gha fake name hadaka and i didn’t believe him fach tla9ina galiya smiyto alae w bli gha kan careful w sc and i was okay witb it wa5a b9a fiya 7al kna chhar kantla9aw w kadab 3liya, W TAAAAL MANBA3D I FOUND OUT HIS REAL NAME IS X( a different name than the previous ones), i still was mad at him but mabghitch n7akar wa5a b9a fiya 7al and he didn’t even appologize. yarbiii how can i be tuis fool, stupid and naive tfooo. I guess this whole thing thought meto read red flags next time and not let em pass by easily.