u/Late_Principle_8532

Can i carry pen and pair along with us in exam center? Planning to take the exam soon. Also share some dos and dont in the exam cente

I (34F) was raised as a JW and married a JW.

Over the course of our marriage, I experienced ongoing emotional abuse.

When I started pulling away, my husband began building a case against me to get me disfellowshipped, spreading claims that I worshiped "pagan gods" and calling me a "characterless woman" to elders and others in the congregation.

Once I found out what he was doing, I decided to leave.

It's now been:

• 3 years since we separated, and i moved to another city
• 1 year since I stopped attending meetings, i do submit FS reports for the heck of it
• Our divorce is currently in progress through the court.

Recently I found out he's dating a sister from his congregation, despite our divorce not finalized yet and no disciplinary action having been taken against him for any of this. May be the elder dont know about it.

I found this out about his dating through brother and sisters.

I'm not sure what the right move is here.

I want to report this to the branch. How should i go about it?

Please dont ask me to leave it and move ahead. I want to report this.

I’m 34 years old. I was a Jehovah’s Witness from the age of 10 until 32. I’m now disassociated and no longer attend meetings.

What is one piece of advice you wish someone had given you earlier about life, identity, relationships, or rebuilding yourself?

I’m open to honest, grounded advice — not about leading an ex jw life in particular...just life in general.

Thank you