u/Latter_Draft_2657

Treats me like more than a friend but has no feelings

I met this girl during a five‑month exchange. We started talking because we were on the same bus and came from the same country. Almost immediately, she invited me to go out with her and her friend group.

From that moment on, every weekend I would go out with them, and afterward she and I would walk back late at night, listening to music and having deep conversations. We would also often study at her house a lot. After a few weeks, I realized I really liked her — to the point where I would drop any plans just to spend time with her. On the last day of the exchange, she told me she knew I liked her, and we left it at that.

Six months later, I went back to visit her and some friends for three days. On the last night, after going out with the group, she and I stayed at her place watching movies, and she insisted on doing my lashes for fun. I expected her to tell me to sleep on the couch, but instead she told me I could sleep next to her. The next morning, as I was leaving, I told her I still had feelings for her. She said she really liked me too — but only as a friend.

What should I do now? Is there any way to change her mind?

We’re both 16.

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u/Latter_Draft_2657 — 5 days ago