AITH Coworker Boundaries
AITA Me 56 year old female married to 56 year old male for 23 years. My husband and I work at the same office but work on separate projects and different areas of a large building. He has a coworker that works similar projects but they don't need to work or collaborate together. She is much older and a widow which gives me pause. It feels uncharitable of me... but evertime I walk to their wing they would be talking. It got uncomfortable. I asked him to stop and he did. But she continues to text him ask him for help with her car or other small jobs around her house she pays him... One time she asked him to swing by Christmas Eve. I put my foot down. She makes no attempt to be my friend or include me. When I tried to talk about it again my husband said "but I made the corrections you asked" That is the hard part I want it to stop but I wish he would acknowledge how much this is bugging me and make the corrections I feel like if I put that much energy into an older man he would have a fit. If anyone has some words of advice I would appreciate them... Thanks in advance