Went on a great date with a guy and we got along well - is it bad to ghost him because it felt too hetero?
Hey guys,
I went on a date with a guy a few days ago and we hit it off well. Ive never had a date this good. We met at a bar around the afternoon and then had dinner and cocktails after. Like we just wanted to extend it.
We established beforehand that I was trans and he is bisexual so he said he was okay with it. Yet as we got cocktails he kept wanting to kiss me and touching my waist. He was calling me cute and said I was cute when talking about nerdy stuff and I just started getting dysphoric and wanted to get out. We ended the date soon after that, exchanging numbers and I said that I would text him and definitely want to hang out again but im not so sure now.
I havent texted him yet. Since we had such a great click I feel like an asshole for basically ghosting him after he paid for like 3 different spots but he made me very uncomfortable in the end even if it went so well before.
I just really dont know if I should dismiss my feelings as just general anxiety around relationships or should see him again to see if its different. Plus what should i fucking text him ughh. Please help.