The Gender Awkwardness in Colleges in VJA
This is a semi-rant and semi-out-of-curiosity type of post, basic ga, almost every clg in VJA (except engineering) has this weird and awkward atmosphere between men and women, especially students, mundhu konni observations tho start cheddam-
Even thinking of starting a conversation is deemed as a love interest (Eraser adigithe kuda feel aipotharu bro, nanne endhuku adigaru ani)
The 1st point has a subtype, okavela nuv conversation start cheyali anukunna ammai ki lover unte, nuv normal ga velli peru enti ani adigina, evening kalla 10 mandhi clg bayata untaru😐
Any exams, practical or any activity that requires boys and girls to coordinate (copy kottadaniki kaadhu, although it's your personal interest), that activity just becomes a catastrophic failure, evaru noru terichi matladaru, em anukuntunaro chepparu, aa thought venaka reasoning chepparu
Sexualisation, matlade prathi ammayini just two categories lo divide chestunnaru, 1-Padipoindhi, 2-Padeyaali, anthe, Classmate, Friend, Best friend, Labmate, ee categories anni non-existent vallaki
Inkontha mandhi untaru, prathi ammai tho matladatharu, andharini bestie antaru (again personal choice but I find it weird)
Objectification, This phrase "Adhi naaku kavali ra", the fuck? Adhi emanna cooldrink aa😐,
Girls for whatever reason, acting like we are beneath them, "Boys tho matladatam time waste, intrest undadhu maaku", i completely understand if you don't like interacting, that's fine, but they just use it as a excuse to portray themselves as sigma,alpha, gamma, whatever 😭 (Malli valle complain chestharu mem matladtledhu ani)
Believing that talking to the opposite gender should only happen if u are romantically interested, endhuku bro??, Ante repu colleague occhi work lo doubt adigithe, thanaki kuda romantic interest undhi antava😭
Last observation, some absolute morons just don't possess the basic idea of respect and boundaries, long time ago, a guy from my clg proposed to a girl (she was already committed), she politely rejected him, i literally heard a motherfucker saying "Adhi enti ekkuva chestundhi, repu room book chesta, dhanni r*pe chesey" yes, he literally said that, and he was a Bachelor's student, not even a full fledged adult and he harbors such type of thoughts 😐
Anyways, thanks for reading everything and putting up with this rant, but rather than crossing it off as a rant, I want you to share your experiences on this matter and if you have any reasoning for such behaviour, do share it.
Also, particularly to the women of the sub, i would like to know your side of the coin, your opinion on women safety in VJA and your thoughts about this.
Although anyone is invited to comment, clg students aithe better ani naa opinion, you can relate to this a lot, so you can talk about it, older men and women can also share their views on this xD
(Signing off with a plate of Punugulu)