u/Left-Attention-8731

Or guys, how do you like to be approached?

I’m not sure I should even write this post but well here I am. Struggling with years of dead bedroom in my marriage, we’re fixing things now but I feel stuck. He said he needs me to initiate in a bold, direct way - like an assertive bj etc. The problem is I can’t really think about what else I can do. I want it, I want to surprise him, but I’ve lost all my confidence in that past stagnation. I need inspiration lol

TIA!