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Fragrances I have finished

1. YSL - Black Opium 
2. Replica - Jazz Club 
3. Kayali - Vanilla 28   FAV
4. Valentino - Born in Roma  other fav
5. Juliet has a Gun - Miami Shake  other fav
6. Glossier - You Doux  Sample Size 
7. Replica - Bubble Bath Sample Size 
8. Glossier - You Fleur  Sample 
9. Ouai - St. Barts Body Mist
10. Sol de Janeiro - Cheirosa 62
11. Replica Small Coffet Set (Beach Walk)

bolded are the ones i will use for layering in the summer. Looking for summer fragrance similar to list like Miami Shake but not too sweet and nothing too citrusy. I also like Beach Walk and Glossier You Fleur/Doux a lot for non-gourmands. I enjoy skin scents as well.

basically had a gay female friend the first few months of college and she confessed that she liked me among other things that crossed the line (never physical — just we were too close). my relationship at the time with my boyfriend was rocky and i felt that we either had very boring uninterested conversation or purely sexual conversation (we were in LDR) and i felt like an object and trapped. i loved him and i didn’t want to break up with him, but this friend was very manipulative and would tell me she understood me more than anyone and that we were meant to be more than friends, which was my exact insecurity that she pinpointed at the time. i basically tried to maintain both sides — occasionally lead her on to maintain the friendship that i felt so connected to (she ended up being a liar and also had purely sexual motives) and maintain relationship with bf.

should i tell him about it completely? he knows about it but not the details specifically. i am no longer in this situation with friend and i fell like it will make me feel closer to him as i have abandonment problems. i am seeing a therapist, and she leaves the decision up to me without any guidance.