Okay so for context, i’m F18 and he’s M19, we’ve been together for over a year now. Never really had any issues in the relationship. The last few months have been a bit rocky, i lost my job, a close family member died and my mh got badddd.
Well anyways picture this, for about 3 months things are a bit rocky, im unemployed struggling with my mh, close family member dies, the relationship gets a bit rocky, well comes round my 18th b day, 20/03, and everything’s going all well.
About 2 weeks ago ( like mid april ), we both start a new job, things are still a bit rocky we’re trying to figure life out. Well anyways, yesterday i had him order something for me off amazon, and i went to see if he had an email come through to see if it was saying what time it was coming, as we was meant to be going out today and just wanted to see if it would come whilst we was out.
Well anyways, i see an email and it says something along the lines of ‘your subscription is expired) and it’s from fansly. So im like hm wtf is that, so i have a look and its a subscription he paid for 9 DAYS after my birthday, so i search up ‘fansly’ in his email search bc if its like a one off then i could move past it… well i found over 100 emails from fansly, saying that these women (multiple) have been sending him messages.
So clearly this isn’t a one off situation. I feel like shit for finding them, but i’ve said to him before that subscribing/ paying to see women is cheating i. my opinion. If he was just watching PH then i couldn’t care, it’s available for everyone out there, it’s not a big issue, but i have multiple times told him that if he pays for someone it’s cheating, and he’s agreed
Well he’s still asleep atm, how tf do i approach the situation in the morning? Do i just talk to him about it and try moving past it? Or do i leave?