u/Legal-Code-5852

Opening up to the idea of marriage, because ovulation hits different in your 30’s.

I’ve always thought marriage was overrated and have been perfectly happy being single, but I’m reconsidering because, ladies, when you hit your 30s, ovulation hits different. 😂 I feel like a beast, and I think the only way to solve this is to get married. 🤔 Although, honestly, I can’t be bothered dealing with someone else’s BS. 😂

Am I the only one ?

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u/Legal-Code-5852 — 11 days ago

Visitors showing up unannounced

I know it’s in our Zim culture to show up at someone’s house unannounced but I’m sorry I think it’s rude and inconsiderate, it’s 2026 we all have mobile phones the least you can do is let me know. I haven’t slept in days working on a project, the moment I lay my head on a pillow, knock knock visitors, they had been knocking for a while to a point they knocked on my bedroom window (I had fallen into deep sleep couldn’t hear them) I’m forced to open the door mind you, I’m a mess my house is a mess. I invited them in but was very uncomfortable and told them that they should have let me know, i’m tired haven’t slept in days they got the hint but I know for a fact they see me as the bad guy and honestly I couldn’t give a fuck! that’s not to say I don’t love them I really do 🩷

and what’s worse they are coming to ask or get something from me not to see me.
Feels like an ambush, my mind was discombobulated hence I answered otherwise I would have ignored.

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u/Legal-Code-5852 — 2 months ago

Eco-cash is sucking us dry!

Tjo I’m sorry but Ecocash is ridiculously expensive!
Sucking us dry literally…we need more competitors then watch the price drop. Sometimes I feel like black people care too much about profit than actually helping a regular citizen for example how expensive was data before Starlink came ?

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u/Legal-Code-5852 — 3 months ago

I need your advice

Hey guys, so there's this Malayitsha guy who drives between South Africa and Zimbabwe. This is my second time placing an order with him. The first time, a couple of months ago, I ordered some drinks that I sell here in Zim.

This second time, I asked him to bring me toilet rolls. He said that was fine, sent me the price, and I was happy with it. He then told me to remind him the following day.
The following day came, but I forgot to text him in the morning. I only remembered in the evening, so I messaged him. Thankfully, he told me he'd already bought the toilet rolls, but he also said he'd purchased the drinks.

My issue is that I never asked him to buy the drinks. I only asked for the toilet rolls and that was clear in our communication as I had said to him I’ll only buy toilet roll for this week next week Intent to buy a fully grocery. I understand he may have thought he was doing me a favour, but realistically, he could have just texted me first to ask he has been in this business for a long time.
Now that he's quoting me the total price, I genuinely don't think I should have to pay for the drinks because I never authorised that purchase and I stopped selling them 7weeks ago for good reason. If he had asked me beforehand and I had agreed, that would be a different story, but he made that decision on my behalf and he isn’t even acknowledging it, so when I asked about the total price how we got to that number he seemed offended because he just laughed mind you I wasn’t even been rude I was asking to understand.

My mom is saying I need to humble myself and pay him because I may need him tomorrow, from my perspective i’m not even fighting him I genuinely want us to come to an understanding or for him to atleast acknowledge he messed up.

Guys please correct me if I’m wrong

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u/Legal-Code-5852 — 3 months ago

STD screening

How often do Zimbos get tested and also I’ve noticed people only test for HIV because that’s what’s free and readily available. How much is a full panel testing and do people test ?

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u/Legal-Code-5852 — 3 months ago