My girl is a FA and idk what to do anymore. I don’t know if she likes me so much that the feelings scare her or if she’s just ghosting me for good. My heart hurts so bad. I’ve tried to walk on egg shells and even that is not enough.
She usually goes on her runs for 2-3 weeks. I text 1-2 times at most because I saw somewhere saying FA’s do not want to be chased. Is that true? I’ve saw some others say they do want to be chased. Just really confused. Should I chase her? Is that what she wants? She has no self esteem because her husband (they are separated and soon to be ex) has abused her in everyway possible for 30 years. Hasn’t even kissed her in THIRTY YEARS! I’ve studied FA. She’s never told me she has it but it fits her to a T. I don’t think she even know she has it.
So could she feel like since I do not chase her that I just don’t care about her cause that is NOT true at all. I would walk through fire for her. I don’t want to lose her.
Anyone PLEASE help me. Reach out to my DMs. I just want her to be like she used to be where she showed her feelings. She had initiated everything first only because I was trying to respect her marriage at first until she told me who her husband really is.
So do FAs want to be chased or left be?
Edit: I’m not a homewrecker, I was going to pull back when she told me she was married but then she told me how bad her husband is and he is the devil and I just want her free from him even if she stays single or chooses another man over me. I hope she chooses me though ofc I would not talk to another man’s wife if he was treating her right and she was truly happy.