When trauma is triggered, you are often experiencing a regression to the specific age where that original wound occurred. Your brain reacts with the same survival mechanisms and emotional maturity you had at that time because it perceives a repeat of the initial threat. If I responded to you as a child would, maybe you should ask yourself why that is??? Are you a threat to the child inside of me???
You broke up with me first, I'm stopping it from happening again, and again. This is the end of the line. The dating thing didn't work. I'm done with being responsible for your emotions, I don't even have a grip on my own. I'm choosing myself, and my mental well-being, and that's making you angry, and I'm left wondering why that is? Why you would want me to remain unwell? Unhealthy mentality? Unless I'm easier to control like that??? Either way, I'm choosing myself for the sake of my grandson, and because I have boundaries you're not respecting at all because, you're hurt, and upset. Well I am too. I'm choosing me, and if you can’t be happy for me, then you never really truly cared... I only want you to be happy, and I know I'm not the one who's able to give that to you, but you don't give a shit. It's like you hate me, and are doing everything in your power to make me dislike you more, and more, day by day. You only care about what you want, and how you feel! I'm done. Finally done.. The funny thing is that you think that this is all about you, it wasn't, but keep going, and see what happens. 👀 We are going to find out together.