Long distance 18M and 18F what would you guys do?
Me ‘M18’ and my gf ’F18’ have been dating for a few months. We’re both very serious about each other and both want a long term relationship together. The only thing is she leaves for college in the beginning of August and I’d be lying if I said it wasn’t weighing on me. Shes never given me a reason to not trust her and I don’t question her loyalty but she’s a very extroverted and outgoing person. I’m super excited for her to go off and start the rest of her life, but I also don’t want her to feel held back by me. The way I see it we haven’t even become the people we’re gonna be yet and we both have so many people that will play roles in our life who we haven’t even met yet (not saying I’m keeping my options open) Another thing is that I’ll be moving somewhere down in the Texas area in a couple years and our distance will go from 5 hours to 20+ hours. I guess what I’m asking for is your guys’ takes on the situation. The long distance doesn’t scare me but in these kinds of scenarios are we holding eachother back and how possible is it that in 4 years we can make our lives intertwined again. What do you guys think?