Is it okay to make my second child’s middle name my first child’s first name?
If this is against the rules, please lmk!
Trigger warning!!! Child loss
Long story short, we lost our first child unexpectedly about a month ago, she was 3. It is the most painful experience of my life and could never have imagined it. I’m currently 17 weeks pregnant with our second child, a boy, and we wanted to honor her and use her first name as his middle name. She has a unisex name and it flows good with the first name we have picked out for him, but I’m just worried maybe people will think it’s weird? Like even in honor that siblings shouldn’t share a name or worse, someone will think we’re just trying to replace her. As you can imagine I don’t really have the ability to have detailed thoughts right now so would just like some advice.