u/Legitimate_Can_5363

Hey people, big question. What can I do to not feel this way? Me (24m) I’ve been feeling this way for a loooong time and it is because I just can’t get some sex, in all of my relationships it’s the same situation, when we had the chance or when we were about to do it they just stop, the best example is my current ex girlfriend (we were together for two years), I always did things for her, masturbated her, fingered her but when I asked her to do something for me or get to the next step (sex) she always gave excuses like “I don’t know how to do it” (funny because the first time I did those things to her they were my actual first time, never did it before) “I’m shy” “it’s not the right place” (but sure, it was the right place when I did it to you but it wasn’t when I asked for it) and things like that. Yea, I was able to do many things, I saw her boobs and everything and I loved it, it was freaking awesome but you know, I also wanted to feel something, even just a handjob but no, nothing. We broke up months ago and I can’t stop feeling like this, masturbating sometimes it’s not enough but I don’t want to pay for sex and all the woman I want to talk to or try something are in a relationship. It is the first time I talk about this and first time trying to get some help, What can I do? :”c