The girl (24f) who | (26m) have been on and off with for almost 2 years (friends for 6 years) and have been on with (not officially dating, but seeing each other most every day) for the past 2 months went on a date with someone else this weekend, is that enough to make you leave?
Things have been a little shaky between us recently.
She has a lot of trust issues and family issues and I trigger those unintentionally, but every time I do l learn another thing about how to keep her safe and happy. This past Friday we went out on a date and when she was showing me something on her phone she got a text from a guy. She had mentioned this guy before as he was her great aunt's old neighbor who she met when he drove in town for her great aunt's birthday. Logically thinking, her great aunt and others probably called him in town to try to set them up.
After seeing the text my brain went in to alert mode and has been like that since. Come Sunday we woke up in the morning and then she asked me to leave so that she could do her makeup for her Mother's Day gathering. What incredible BS that is, she never asks me to leave before she does and gets upset if I try to.
She wanted me out because she was going on a date and didn't want me to see her get ready and see her get picked up. Come Sunday night after all the Mother's Day gatherings I went over to her place and it felt like she was glowing. She seemed happy, genuinely happy and I was completely thrown off because I was ready for her to tell me to hit the curb.
Things were a little awkward, and she did try to pick a fight or two but I didn't react to anything and appeased the situations. Besides that, the night was good. She showed no signs of disinterest, and if
anything, was more on me than normal once we y past the initial phase. I'm overflowing with emotions. I don't feel like she's trying to betray me, but the feeling is really shitty. Do I even bring this up, or just be better than this other guy