Discussion: What does a successful provider look for in a woman with 3 kids?
Hi everyone,
I want to ask for some honest opinions about dating and relationships in the US, especially from a Red Pill perspective.
To give you some context about me: I am a 33-year-old woman from Ukraine (here under the U4U program). I have been living in the US for about 2.5 years now. Right now I live in Chicago and work part-time as a waitress, but I am moving to Detroit very soon because my aunt lives there and she will help me with my kids.
About my situation: I have 3 kids, and my youngest is a 1-year-old mixed baby. I am legally married, but my husband is still abroad, he doesn’t have a US visa and he will not come here at all. So I am basically raising my kids and navigating life in the US completely by myself.
When I move to Detroit, my goal is to find a successful, generous man who wants to be a provider and help me with financial stability and guidance for the future.
I want to hear the honest truth from the men here: From your perspective, what are the biggest problems or challenges with a situation like mine? What can a woman with kids do to bring value to a successful man, and what traits do you think are most important?
I am not looking for sugarcoating, just trying to understand how men think about this. Thank you!