My BD wants custody of our newborn Friday-Sunday 2-4 weeks after I give birth
Alright yall, tell me(26f) if I’m wrong for feeling this way. My child’s father(29m) and I were dating but broke up when I found him cheating on me. I kicked him out and three days later I found out I was pregnant. We stayed broken up and didn’t talk much other then when he would ask how I’ve been feeling until about 5 months into the pregnancy where we then tried to make things work. I caught him cheating- telling other girls he wanted to get them pregnant and saying that I’m crazy and we aren’t together, posted him on the are we dating the same guy page and he’s apparently known as a force breeder and sends unwanted sexts and nudes- when I was 7 1/2 months along. We’ve been no contact since and recently went to dinner because I’m now due in 2w5d and we have to have some kind of ground to walk on when this child gets here.
Let’s get to what matters. This man wants my newborn baby to go with him Friday-Sunday 4 weeks after I give birth. He wants me to pump enough to supply him. He wants me to drive her to him (he lives an hour away!!!). He has made my entire pregnancy a horrible experience and now he wants to take my baby away for that long and I know it’s to play house with another fb girl or he’s going to pass her off to his mom. I want him to have a relationship with our daughter, but I think this ask is outrageous. I’m so stressed out I can’t even think straight. Am I wrong to think that what he’s asking is absolutely insane??