u/Libearssman

Guy here: I've had 3 ex girlfriends do the same as this subreddits name suggests. I always thought everything was great and didn't realize through impacting my job and career i was having hard time and realized what was really going on was... typing out the phrases honestly is a bit difficult to me.

One drugged me and later threatened to have her ex husband kill me through telling me all kinds of guilt tripping like how she let me in her house, fed me, etc.(When I confronted her on the drugging.) Once I realized the relationships were just about sex and tried to pull away they'd always pressure me into staying. Even if I was good at intimacy it severely impacted my ability to be romantic with new partners and develop a real connection.

Fortunately the law enforcement officers read through my text messages at my offering and really listened to my story. I had both a male and female officer walk me through the paperwork where both expressed a lot of emotion towards me to help me get through leaving the worst one. And honestly, sometimes the roots feel like they run so deep i want to reach out and text or call them. I don't always trust law enforcement but ill be damned if they werent there for me every step of the way. Just extensively coerced intimacy from 3 different partners. I've since chose the single life for my own sanity. I might not ever make any kids but I'm definitely happier with my peace of mind. Not all women are bad but these 3 were definitely not good ones.

Guys, if you ever think its amazing a partner wants to have sex numerous times a week, for hours, and months on end, take a step back. Really give it some thought and make sure you are in a good place.

Just felt compelled to share after I came across a comment on another part of reddit.

Not looking for validation or sympathy, I just wanted to share this so others might see what I've been through and avoid the same mistakes. Always make sure you take care of yourself.