Hello Everyone,
I was wondering if anyone can help me or lead me to the right direction. I previously lost my birth certificate and have zero idea how to get it from down home. I ask one of my tanty and she say she couldn't even get it for her child's father who live in Florida. I'm not sure what the laws or rules are but i would appreciate some insight.
so here i am M31 with a 30F. Been with her for like 4 years now and it's been hell ever since. She has two kids with separate men and both those men are convicted criminals with one currently in the system. She has nothing beyond an 9th grade education with zero drive to be anything better. We've had multiple blow outs in every apartment we've lived so far and it's usually due to her forcing ignorant ideals unto me and me not giving in but eventually i do in order to keep peace in the house. Shes physically attacked me numerous times, keyed my car, destroy documents like passports and birth certificates. She's called my prior job with false claims of me stealing (i'd never do such a thing). Shes gotten into fights with my mother and siblings and now they wont come to my home. She's had what i'd call crashouts/tantrums numerous times due to her not being able to regulate her emotions and she does this in front of all the children (4 in total we share 1 and i have one from a prior relationship) she's attacked my manhood on multiple occasions trying to tell me what a man should be. She also tries to attack my insecurites both mentally and physically. The thing is every single time i try to leave she throws another tantrum and does the most, one time she sat on the hood of the car just so i couldn't leave another time she tried to use our new born as a pawn just for me to stay. It happens every single time. I just dont know what to do anymore... sorry for the long post, trust me it couldve been longer. i need advice i just want to be happy and be a good dad to my kids
sup buds, im looking to get into corrections in NJ. I am a father of 4 in my 30's. I've been contemplating this move from being a business professional to joining corrections then PD. My cousin and brother are both in separate counties for about a year or so now and i've seen them change, nothing drastic just overly stressed and more militant to a point. I guess my questions are how will this whole thing affect me? What's going to happen to my kids and wife? What avenues can i maneuver into while being a CO? How bad is the physical and mental part of the whole thing?